Theultimatefighter_21
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Hello Guys and Gals, i have found this text in the Subreddit of NoFap, and i found it intersting to share. It's about friendzone, hope this helps many of you!
"You have to be honest. If you like a girl to be your potential mate, date her. Don't stick around trying to fool her into thinking you're a good guy, waiting for her to fall for you. If she rejects you when you ask her out, so face the rejection and walk away. What if she says "Let's be friends?" Many of us fall for this trap. You say yes, lying to yourself and denying your healthy feelings and attraction for her, convincing yourself either she'll fall for you or you'll learn not to love her anymore. That, my friends, is unhealthy. For your brain, for your body, for your emotions, they get screwed up a bit and it will reflect on you. So be honest. Ask her if she's really okay with the idea of you being around her when she knows that you desire her. And by desire, I include the desire to carry her to bed and make love. It's up to you how to say it, but you have to make that implication. If she says YES, then that's an insult to you. A real friend would never allow a friend to silently suffer, especially if she knows she is the cause. The right response should be no, unless she wants the benefits. So walk away. You're not being disrespectful. You're being real. Realize you cannot please everybody and you should not aim to please everybody. Value yourself. Take a deep breath, and staying true to yourself, go look for the one." -wolf-khang, a Subreddit user.
"You have to be honest. If you like a girl to be your potential mate, date her. Don't stick around trying to fool her into thinking you're a good guy, waiting for her to fall for you. If she rejects you when you ask her out, so face the rejection and walk away. What if she says "Let's be friends?" Many of us fall for this trap. You say yes, lying to yourself and denying your healthy feelings and attraction for her, convincing yourself either she'll fall for you or you'll learn not to love her anymore. That, my friends, is unhealthy. For your brain, for your body, for your emotions, they get screwed up a bit and it will reflect on you. So be honest. Ask her if she's really okay with the idea of you being around her when she knows that you desire her. And by desire, I include the desire to carry her to bed and make love. It's up to you how to say it, but you have to make that implication. If she says YES, then that's an insult to you. A real friend would never allow a friend to silently suffer, especially if she knows she is the cause. The right response should be no, unless she wants the benefits. So walk away. You're not being disrespectful. You're being real. Realize you cannot please everybody and you should not aim to please everybody. Value yourself. Take a deep breath, and staying true to yourself, go look for the one." -wolf-khang, a Subreddit user.
