Success on multiple dates, friendship with girls, confidence and much more

Hi guys, it's been a while I don't see this forum. I've been busy with my new life. I'll try to explain some things I've been experiencing on the last month, things like girls chasing me, multiple dates, friendship with girls, confidence, happiness and even sex! I really hope my post doesn't become a trigger for some of you.

I've been trying to quit PMO for 2 years, it's been a strong fight. My best streak was 25 days clean and on the last few months my streaks didn't pass the 15 days mark. But I didn't give up.

In 2019 I learned that NOFAP will not solve all your problems. NOFAP will not make you attract girls like crazy. There are a lot of factors that I've been learning, some things are very common but nobody see it because most guys still live inside the Matrix, they think NOFAP will do everything for them, unfortunately I was one of those guys but I finally got this! We know there are guys overthere dating multiple girls, making a lot of money, having good relationships, true friends, happy, etc and they fap sometimes.

On 11 February I started my first time in college, I'm doing marketing and management. There are more girls than guys in my room. One day ago before the first class I had a relapse. I was a bit down but still confident and positive. I remember last year I met a woman, a friend of my mother, she was doing her registration. We talked a bit and then we just see each other again this year.
Well on the first day of class she came to talk to me and she told me she was very happy because I was starting on college. I felt she liked me and we changed numbers. I didn't expect nothing more than just a new female friend.

Some days passed and I was following my path, good habits, positive emotions, being kind and friendly with everybody, reading books, not spending much time on the internet, positive afirmations, exercises, testing my new Alpha way to talk to people, good posture, Alpha body language, looking in the eyes of people, taking care of my look and health, being very proactive in every aspect, etc. And with these simple habits people started to take me more seriously and treat me as a leader.

On the second week of college, another girl (this time from my class) ask for my number and we started to talk. I wasn't expecting a date. Just another female friend. At this point on the class interval everyone used to sit with me and even save a spot for me. I used to do the same thing for my new friends.

After some conversations and on the final of the second week of college, on a thursday night I got a date with the girl from my class. I got a date after 1 year since my last breakup! I was very happy, feeling awesome! Like a teenager, I was on day 12 of NOFAP, and guess what? On friday night I had another date, but this time with that woman I met on the first day of college.

Unfortunately after I got home I had a strong urge and I relapsed. I remember I was praying to not having sex with that woman on friday night because I was afraid of having ED. Well, after that friday class we have our first date and then she took me to her house, and we had sex! I didn't have ED but I felt I could be way more better if I didn't relapse last night.

After that we still had some dates and more sex...She told me since the first day she saw me last year she felt something different on me. She told me I was different, I had something different and that's why she came to talk to me and told me that she promised last year that she wouldn't date anyone of college because she wanted to take college very seriously, but I was an exception.

That was a surprised for me. I didn't expect to hear that and I'm sure that was because of nofap. After some dates she told me I was very different than the other guys she dated on the past, she told me I was pure and I had a good soul and that she feels very confortable with me. Almost same thing with that other girl from my class.

Now I'm dating two girls on the same time. I'm not taking that seriously and they know that, I wanna date more girls, I don't feel empty even before I was dating them. I'm finally learning the way to treat girls like a boss and not like a desperate beta male needy dude.

I'm not desperate for sex anymore, I learned that sex is not the best thing in the world, and I can be more happy doing NOFAP Hardmode.

I'll make another post talking more about sex because here is the wrong place.
But I feel like I don't need sex to be happy, I still have a lot of work to do inside my mind after years of PMO adiction, I admit I'm not 100% clean. I wanna make the 90 days reboot hardmode, I feel I can be more productive and my focus is way better doing nofap hardmode.

I even talked about nofap to one of the women I'm dating and she understood very well. That was hours of conversation, happened on last saturday. She told me we could keep dating and doing things together without sex, but she felt quite sad because of that. She knows I'm a very good company. I didn't talk to the other girl about nofap, we didn't have sex yet, and I'm not chasing her for it, so we're still dating casually and that's pretty good.

I feel there are more girls on my colleger that wants to meet me and I'll keep doing it. I wanna know much more about women's psychology and having a good relationship with everyone, not just women. I was a very shy and beta male dude on the past, without female friends.

I know NOFAP has to do with it but also my good habits helped me a lot with girls! I'm not looking for sex anymore, just on having a good relationship with people and wait for the right person to have a really good relationship. Also focus on college and learning ways to make money.

That was my success story so far. I'll edit if I forget something else. Feel free to ask me anything. Peace!

 

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