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Successful NoFap (90 days +) and training for stamina using fleshlight

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by seekingabetterlife, May 13, 2018.

  1. seekingabetterlife

    seekingabetterlife Fapstronaut

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    Hey everyone,

    I am 91 days free from PMO today!!

    Although I am happy with this, there are plenty of areas of my life I'd like to improve.

    One area is my battle with premature ejaculation. I can last maybe 5 minutes (many time less.... a few occasions more) upon penetration. These are actually times when I try my best to go slow and didn't receive too much stimulation by my partner prior to the penetration. If my partner uses her hand or mouth prior to penetration I would usually O almost instantly upon penetration.

    Needless to say.... this really sucks and makes sex not enjoyable for me or my partner. I experienced this with my ex and it left me feeling terrible.

    In the past, I would take a drug I ordered online to last. It has terrible side effects. It would cause insane stomach issues sending me to the bathroom for major crapping. Also it would cause a decent amount of nausea. Eventually, I was able to help the side effects a bit by taking anti-diarrhea meds before taking the drug. But, sometimes it would not work.... and let's face it... I don't want to drug myself every time I have sex.

    I also take an all natural drug to stay erect, but this is a story for a different day.

    I'd like to practice prolonging my ejaculation by practicing with a fleshlight.

    What do you all think about this?? I wouldn't do this till about day 130. Also, I told myself I can only practice twice a week. And, I'm allowed to only O twice in a given day when practicing. Of course, no porn will be involved. I will try gaining/maintaining an erection though visual or sometimes taking my natural supplement.

    Do you think this is OK?? Can it screw with my NoFap benefits??

    Thanks for the input!!
     
  2. Do you MO without porn? If yes then you might as well try this. Masturbation is masturbation, is masturbation. But if you are also abstaining from MO, even without porn, then no. Practice with a partner. If you currently don't have a partner find one. Then have them help you. Meanwhile stay away from MO. There is no reason to assume that benefits you gain from fleshilght will translate to real sex.
     
  3. I didntread it I scanned my eyes over a second but you wanna use a flshlight and think your doing NoFap? Your joking right?
     
  4. Phoenix Rising

    Phoenix Rising Fapstronaut

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    Yes, masturbation is masturbation is masturbation. You just need to find the right girl. Masturbating while fantasizing about the right girl is still masturbation. If you have sex with a girl that you are not attracted to you will take longer to cum. You also might want to try ice on your manhood. Supposedly this helps to delay ejaculation.
     

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