I guess this was the big ticket item for me - would I be able to have sex, stay hard, deal with the lack of sensation from a condom and still climax? The answer is yes. And it happened under 90 days. I think the stabilising factor was a partner that was eager and patient. I find a lot of people quiet selfish, demanding and rigid in bed - and that social element was something I couldn't get over before completely. I would say that after the condom went on I was only 80% firm or erect, but it was enough. (And although my banner says only no porn, I never had a solo ejaculation until day 63).