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Super powers benefits from Abstaining ?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by SeriousPanda, May 30, 2018.

  1. SeriousPanda

    SeriousPanda Fapstronaut

    Bismallah (in the name of Allah).
    Hello to All. (Salam for my Muslim brothers)
    I have abstained for more than 147 Days on my first attempt and relapsed after that and continued for 2 months and now i am back again.
    During my journey on Nofap i have found great benefits from Abstaining from all PMO. Such as:
    1- Greater memory, i am able to remember things that happened much early in my journey by date and even by scenery (how the weather was like).
    2- Greater focus, i am able to focus on different tasks on one time line (accomplishes much more.
    3-Greater logical state, i am able now to face my problems with a mind that is clear without any fears and tackling my problems one by one.
    4- Greater emotional state, i am proud of myself and each day going by i remember where i was and where i am right now (don't ever forget the phrase "hard works pays! it is not lost.)

    1- What helped you to Abstain?

    At first, Pmo was part of my daily life style i thought it to be normal (since i have been doing it for a long time) but i reached rock bottom (no improvement in social life-no hope in a future if i continue on my style-and a failed man for marriage or for my family) <= These thoughts continued to possess me.. and i heard a voice (similar to a clear thought within me saying "this is your last chance to repent and come back to Allah! or do you want to be like someone else."
    That was the first trigger for me to change. In conclusion i have felt literally Allah's mercy on me and by his will only that i was able to change.


    2- What is your goal from abstaining? how long would you stop for?

    My goal is to not be a person who is moved by instincts. (We believe as Muslims, Allah has created Angels without a will or desires, Humans with Mind and Will and desires, and Animals without mind or will only desires) So the further we control our desires in the boundary (of sacred marriage life) and not sin we get closer or even higher than Angels! and the more we move to the instincts the closer to Animals we get!
    My goal to Abstain is forever because it is bad habit, and bad habits brings a lot of problems.

    3- What is your advice for beginners?

    Start slow, baby steps, remember that you are building yourself to be a stronger Self not weak to your desires! put 3 targets ahead of you. One you can see (short target 1 week minimum). One you can't see until you achieved the first target (middle target 1 month). and the last target is the finish end line for your first initial target (long target 3 months). ~Once you get here you will start planning for more than a year.

    Conclusion:

    Everyone faces challenges and everyone has a different life, but the standards for success and happiness are all the same (stable family, strong hold,etc..) None will help you but your own self first. Do the reasons you must do and Allah will take care of the rest. <= This is my belief and its my faith alhamedallah.
    Good luck to All. Hope this has helped.

    La Elah Ela Allah
    (No God but Allah.)

     
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  2. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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    I don’t have superpowers but I do have a firmer dick during the day
     
  3. SeriousPanda

    SeriousPanda Fapstronaut

    @MarinoBigFan1984 The title was meant to entice and attract because some people truly believe we gain super powers.
    I have noticed that i regained a focus i thought i have lost for a long time and Alhamdelallah i have regained that.
    What i achieved was through constant work on mind (reading and educating myself) , body (exercise healthy eating) Soul (being close to Allah and doing my best) This together has helped me see what i normally wouldn’t see.
    Thank you for commenting, but a “firmer dick” was not my point at all.
     
  4. Souhail

    Souhail Fapstronaut

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    Salam brother , I wish that you will have an awesome reboot this time
    Only one thing try to read your brain on porn and about sexual transmutation to help you quit for a longer period
     
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