Fap5Freddy, wow. "Might have some growing up to do." I guess that would apply. But to jump to that assumption based only on what was written, well, thank you I guess. It was a simple question out of curiousity. I hear the radio commercials on the morning commute and wanted to know. There was an interest if it could assist me in rewiring faster, but completely understand the shortcut issue mentioned. I don't need medication from a doctor, the general rule I had understood if you can get a decent erection it isn't a physical problem if you can't, so, yes time may well be the best way to go, and m patience. This type of a reply above is why I don't usually post or participate. Folks are dealing with difficulty and don't need someone making rather pointed judgements that are best made by a sponsor or accountability partner. If i want real life brutal truth I can get that just waking up and going about my day, but to come here and post a simple question to have it read into the extent to have someone "take my inventory" as they say in AA, well, thanks for the assist. I do know something about addictions having made it over 26 years without drinking, so I can stare down as you say, or better yet, one day at a time it. Well, let me close the post here and get off to work, thanks for your affirming post and motivation. Perhaps this board is not the best place for me to improve my path, for that I apologise and will be careful about posting. Self esteem, guilt and shame are enough save for to tune in with morning coffee and see the courageous anonymous types snipe behind the computer screen.