Hi team .. I’m a 30+ year user of porn - averaging daily that whole time. I’ve wasted hours and hours trying to find the right scene, the right image to hit the mark ... and come up often disgusted with what did it for me - situations I have no desire to actually live in real life. I’m happily married, physically and spiritually attracted to my mate, and yet I find the ‘bother’ of sex is often not worth the effort. I’m usually imagining some porn visual while we’re having sex rather than being present to her and that doesn’t feel right. I’m doing a pmode reboot for 90 days. Most I’ve ever gone in the last 31 years is 30 days; this is the year in break free.