I've been on a few dates with someone I met online. So far we've just kissed and cuddled and she's starting to give me signals that she'd like me to stay over at her place soon. I'm still at the early stages of a hardmode 90 Day Challenge so want to have lots of contact with her but want to steer clear of full sex and my own climax. Has anyone had any experience of telling someone about your hard mode reboot and how you went about it? It's of course important to be open and honest with her, but starting a conversation with "hey I'm a recovering porn addict" while we're getting in the mood isn't exactly an appealing prospect! Anyone have any advice for me?