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Talking to a woman, getting an erection.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by FapFapFapNoMore, Feb 5, 2018.

  1. FapFapFapNoMore

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    So, I talked to a woman that sat close to me in Sunday church meetings, as I introduced myself, she gave me a smile and I smiled back. When I offered her my hand for a shake, she shook my hand....and OMG her hand was so soft and I took a whiff of her scent and it turned me on, I got an erection from a woman's scent! So I crossed my legs while sitting down so she won't see my erection and hoping it would go away...I was excited to meet such a beautiful woman, that her beautiful face and hair turned me on! I'm guessing this is the part where my brain is recovering....right?


    and I was...like oh Lord, curse me for having an erection at Sunday at Church while thinking about this beautiful woman and how I could do multiple things to her....

    We ended up chatting more and more...trying not to think about sex...and she was a really nice woman, she was a goddess in my opinion. I ended up getting her number.
     
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  2. Dude I got the same thing some time ago. Yeah it is your brain recovering your brain is used to only seeing women in sexual situations on your phone. It will take it some time to adjust.
     
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  3. Clean Plate

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    That is correct. Stay away from porn long enough and you start to appreciate womens beauty the correct way. Anything beyond that is being selfish.
     
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  4. FapFapFapNoMore

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    wow, I'm so impressed, you have 311 days...can i ask you a mighty explicit question? Do you get turned on by REAL women that you find attractive? I want to have this experience, its faaaar more satisfying than women on screen.
     
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  5. Clean Plate

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    Yes, I do get turned on by real women. IMHO I still need about one more year after I hit a year PMO sobriety to fully explain it to you. I'm not as nervous when Im around women compared to when I was PMOing constantly back then. I would get hot flushes surging through my body basically a panic attack. I even quit a job because of it. Now I still get that feeling but its not enough to make me run away. Its different for everybody my friend, get more days under your belt and you can share your experience with us again someday!
     
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  6. jjnf

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    This is the most natural thing in the world - you should expand your social and dating life and then you will find that girls appreciate your attraction to them, it can even make them attracted to you.

    Be careful of thinking that girls are angelic goddesses though, this is a dangerous "purity fantasy".
    A healthier perspective would be to see them as beautiful, yet imperfect.. and that you yourself are also beautiful and imperfect.

    Congratulations on your success with NO PMO man :emoji_thumbsup:
     
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  7. FapFapFapNoMore

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    Thanks man! I am currently in the path of Self-improvement. NoFap, cold showers, reading PUA books: Carlos Xuma and applying it out there to hit on women lol, getting mentally strong and not taking shit seriously, and...this week...I'm going on a date. I hope she becomes my girlfriend. You are right about girls...they are not perfect...which makes them even more attractive because I appreciate their weaknesses and insecurities...there's something sexy about being vulnerable. ...
     

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