Teen porn

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Saurav04, Mar 14, 2020.

  1. Saurav04

    Saurav04 Fapstronaut

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    If I think logically with no emotions or lust especially after ejaculation it feels like I am worthless there is only self loath.
    Seeing girls of 18 year old, standing between group of guys and those guys fuck her and do brutal things. The girls in video pretend to enjoy it, moan etc if they don't do their acting they won't get paid. For the losers like us who fap to this kind of video. If I think logically why I want to see this I don't have any answer still it's difficult to stop PMO. I know it's too bad for me still why it's so difficult to leave PMO?
     
  2. Addiction is not a logic problem. It's emotional. Why did you not find better pleasures in your life, like talking, run, study and etc. Make compromisses with yourself, stay healthier, positive and moving forward, ever.

    It's not easy, but it's not impossible. And avoid sad music!
     
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  3. Saurav04

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    I have been trying from so many years. I have left PMO for maximum 1 month it felt good. But after that relapsed. It's too difficult
     
  4. You're not alone, I'm doing NoFap for 2 years and I my maximum is 8 days. Let's beat it together and stop the regrets and sadness of relapse? Yeah...
     
  5. ANewFocus

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    You can do this. Do whatever it takes. Stay busy. You can get past 8 days.
     
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  6. the awakening

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    Yeah but do you do anything to stop yourself from watching P. I mean For example on my iPhone i can’t even use google I just have the nofap forum nothing else.

    blockers are a great way to protect yourself.
     
  7. Legal age is 16 here in the UK! Chances are if you've watched our teen p0rn, you've jacked off to 16 year olds getting it!
     
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  8. Thank you NewFocus. I wish you the best in your journey here too.
     
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  9. If you knew the drink you were taking was really poison, would you still drink it? Of course not. But you need to be absolutely convinced, i.e. emotionally convinced, not just logically. For some of us, we need to hit rock bottom to become convinced it really is bad. When the mind is not convinced, it plays along knowing full well it's only a matter of time until it gets the fix that it wants. Here's an interesting story involving Socrates:

    A young man asked Socrates the secret to success. Socrates told the young man to meet him near the river the next morning. They met. Socrates asked the young man to walk with him towards the river. When the water got up to their neck, Socrates took the young man by surprise and ducked him into the water. The boy struggled to get out but Socrates was strong and kept him there until the boy started turning blue. Socrates pulled his head out of the water and the first thing the young man did was to gasp and take a deep breath of air. Socrates asked, 'What did you want the most when you were there?" The boy replied, "Air." Socrates said, "That is the secret to success. When you want success as badly as you wanted the air, then you will get it." There is no other secret.
     
  10. Cool story.
     
  11. PIEDSufferer

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    Love that!
     
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  12. PIEDSufferer

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    Younger girls are fetishized. In the porn industry, “the younger the better.” Because porn users are drawn to a sense of innocence, and taking advantage. Now, I’m always going to think like a biologist first: There are evolutionary reasons for this. Successful males crave dominance. Because dominance leads to survival fitness. So we have an innate instinct to secure a dominant role, and super young teen girls will trigger that instinct because they appear easier to dominate over.

    Now, translated over to a sophisticated human society, we as men can explore this dominance and masculinity in more productive ways. Being a leader, a provider, a good father, a gentleman, etc..... These are all truly masculine roles that we can take if we so desire. Watching teen porn triggers that instinct, but it will ultimately lead to unhealthy self-esteem when you realize it’s all fake. Because real men go out and mate. And a real man can mate with a strong woman. Watching porn is for wusses;)
     
  13. Saurav04

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    Pleasure from porn is transient. In end it always result in guilt shame and unworthiness. Being leader, provider or good father isn't as easy as seeing porn. There is fear of rejection when finding mate. Being a provider isn't easy when you aren't able to provide yourself what you need. Most people tends to take path of least resistance. I guess that's why most of the people aren't successful. I don't know how much determination it requires to quit PMO. But it would be the best thing for any man.
     
  14. PIEDSufferer

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    Exactly! And I think a part of that feeling of unworthiness comes from knowing that you took the path of least resistance. The rewards that are the most difficult to achieve are the ones we feel most proud of. And this is why we are all here:rolleyes:
     
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  15. Saurav04

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    I'm glad I read this. I really wish a world free of porn and all addictions. I guess it's people greed and lust etc which is root of all evil and bad things.
     
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  16. Bro, just quit porn. It's terrible. I am 18 year old, I go to college with my friends (Girls and guys) being 18 year olds, man they're kids like me, I cant imagine them doing all these things like you said. It's really hard to leave porn, I know. But you should give it a best shot, because only your best shot will get you out. If you failed, then it wasn't your best shot :)
     
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  17. Face it man, you can't give triggers as an excuse. You're going to find attractive teens maybe somewhere in life, are you gonna give that as excuse again? Face the urge. If it doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger. I know you can face your triggers and emerge stronger than them.
     
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  18. PIEDSufferer

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    Best way I’ve dealt with being triggered by teen porn is knowing that an 18 year old was about 4 years old when I entered college:eek:
     
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  19. Saurav04

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    I know it's really hard I have left PMO for appx a month it was 3 months ago. This time I have left facebook, instagram and twitter etc. But what I found is I am relapsing more compared to when I was using it. Triggers are everywhere I saw a gymnast and relapsed (we all know mind is the biggest sexual organ). Just some imagination are enough to make you lose control then MO even without seeing porn.
    The only thing which helped me going more than a month PMO free was I just control on my thoughts at that time I was using facebook, instagram and twitter.
    If my post can trigger you anything can trigger you, such as a poster of movie on a road or something else. I thought if I leave all social media, youtube or internet I will not relapse but I was wrong.
     
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  20. Summer Son

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    Actually this specific category has a lot of different websites on the internet. I personally, wasted too much time on it and it was my most searching category. And this category has a lot of sub-categories with too many different variations. Also there is probably evolutionary background about why we watch this category. You can search endlessly especially on this category because there are millions of websites for this specific category. But porn is actually a button we push to provide our brains to get a dopamine high. No matter what kind of different category you watched. This is about just conditioning. If you conditioned your brain, probably your brain get high from it before you even don't click the website, but just searching on it. Neural pathways now remember where is the high. Your pathways conditioned to it. Porn is porn. Teen porn or other categories. There is no difference. In the same time porn is not just porn. Porn is your opinions about other gender. Your thoughts about women. Objectifying, oogling, searching bikini pics on the net, searching women on the instagram. Thinking about it, remembering it, fantasizing it. Whatever to get a dopamine high from it. And of course we can't get away from it completely, sometimes. But we should try. In time, your brain eventually get better and does not want for a dopamine fix, or less.
     
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