Hey everyone, just some background. I’ve met a great girl. She’s so good to me and I really enjoy being around her. I plan on asking her out officially tomorrow in person. Tomorrow she is expecting us to be intimate together for the first time. I suffer from PIED. I have about a 7 day streak, but I doubt I’m ready for sexual intimacy no matter how badly I want to be. I realize if I want this to work I should tell her the truth. She deserves to know especially since I’ve been dodging sexual intimacy for some time now. Another reason is I know cuddling and other forms of intimacy with someone you care about help the rebooting process. I’m just petrified to tell her. I was wondering if anyone has told their girlfriend and has any tips. How did you explain it? How did they react? How should I phrase it so she doesn’t think I’m such a sexual deviant? one issue is she has said in the past she HATES porn. She feels no one in a relationship should watch it. So I’m just a little nervous now she’s going to react in having feelings for a recovering porn addict. Any advice is helpful and thank you for reading. God (or whatever deity you may follow) bless you all.