Texting my girlfriend

at 195 days your reboot should be complete. I think you are okay.

 

We are drawn to people and embark on relationships with them for primal sexual reasons, and your arousal is just a result of your seeing her as a potential lover/mate. To associate a partner with sex and to get excited when you communicate with them is normal and healthy. Also, depending on age, it may be super normal. When my wife and I were teenagers (we have been together a long time) I would be at least partly erect most of the time we spent together alone, and often would get excited even out in public. Hormones can greatly affect how likely this is. Also, it is great news that communicating with your partner or lover is enough to excite you, with no need for the hyper-stimulation of porn. Don't beat yourself up about this. Try not to let your excitement progress to MO/PMO though.