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Texting not sexting

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by SaiyanWarrior, Dec 19, 2020.

  1. SaiyanWarrior

    SaiyanWarrior Fapstronaut

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    So I met a girl at work, we exchanged numbers and its been a week that we've been talking. I'm 4 days in no pmo but I have all the sexual problems caused by PMO due to my past with heavy pmo. So whenever I talk to her I feel the energy going down and sometimes pre cum also comes out. It's normal talking and texting nothing more. We are really becoming good friends and I don't want to lose her yet don't want the pre cum to come out as it makes me feel a bit weak. Is it a relapse? And what do you recommend I should do ?
     
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  2. redhalon

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    You are talking to a woman how is that a relapse
     
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  3. SaiyanWarrior

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    Pre cum coming out
     
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  4. blacklabel92

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    I mean your just gonna have to soldier through the pre cum barrier buddy.. The other alternative is not texting and calling to see if that helps but girls r usually more comfortable w/txt.. Just tough it out.. U said ur on no pmo so your obviously not tryna sleep with her cause ur refraining from O right?
     
  5. redhalon

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    I dont see how is that a bad thing. Seems to me you are wiring your brain to be aroused from talking to a girl you like. Seems like a good thing to me.
     
  6. SaiyanWarrior

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    Yaa bro no pmo that's right but precum does take a lil benefits away though. I feel a bit weak too.
     
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  7. blacklabel92

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    Nice! Good luck on your journey.. Im actually just PM.. But ive been saying PMO..

    Yeah.. Not as much as the actual O itself.. I know its hard but just practice more self control. Have multiple daily positive beneficial routines.

    Try hot black tea with MCT oil. Warm lemon water on an empty stomach is also good.
     
  8. SaiyanWarrior

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    So I deleted the girls number and told her to not contact me too politely. She understood. Nothing will come between me and my goals, my healing.
    Btw Warm lemon water why?
     
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  9. blacklabel92

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    Hmm.. Well if she wasnt that great, good move.. But if u feel like she could be one of the "great ones" id say mull it over a bit before writing her off completely. Regret is a MF.

    Of course she did! Lol. Most girls know how to operate smoothly..

    Yup, Preach! Amen brotha.

    Well from my understanding the vitamin C is good and its a citric acid so when u wake up and drink warm lemon water on an empty stomach its acts as a startup for your digestive system think of your body as a car, certain remedys and actions like warm lemon water or a quick 30 min workout are keys that will start your cars ignition and get you running.. Hope that made sense. Good luck!
     
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