I will probably be leaving this community soon (maybe Sunday?) given I've rebooted successfully. It's been fun and I plan to never look at P for the rest of my life. My SO is very happy with how things are going and our intimacy has grown exponentially. I still plan to M from time to time without P or fantasizing as I have been doing successfully with her knowledge and support of this. When I started I was Ming maybe 3-4x/day and usually for hours and hours, so I've come a long way. The fantasies have melted away from my thoughts, I have zero desire to look at P. My SO even looks at me in amazement whenever we are watching a movie and I steer my eyes away from p subs like sexual scenes. No superpowers, but I feel happier to have control over this aspect of my life.