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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by modern milarepa, Jul 4, 2021.
I guess I'm 1/3 of the challenge now
Sex can't change you
When I'm on the right energetic and mental state sex doesn't create too much happiness or mental balance. Because I'm already balanced and with high levels of energy.
On the contrary if I'm being lazy, not focused in life, when I have sex it's like an unbelievable source of mental balance and excess of energy.
Here I'm talking about non ejaculatory sex, which is the type of sex I practice.
Try to live in such a way that having or not having sex has the same effect on you.
How to do it: live in a mental and physical state of relaxation and awareness this way you live in your natural state which is wisdom and joy.
SR, Day 0
Taking another stab at this. I've got to be honest, 4 years feels very daunting but hey every journey is a finite number of steps so here's step one!
Day 7, yay!
Yesterday I ad sex with a beautiful girl who knows twerking great butt and dangerous moves but semen retention is still going strong
I had sex with the same girl two days in a row. It wa better and no feeling to ejaculate.
I had the feeling to ejaculate the day before, now I see it was because it was very late way fter my bed time and I was stressed out.
Stress activates fly or fight response which is link to ejaculation.so if you are relaxed it's less likely you'll ejaculate prematurely and more easy to control ejaculation
So I'm trying to have a much sex before vasectomy to gather extra energy.
You can almost have sex right after the procedure maybe 2 days after. I'll try to wait 5.
Also this girl like hard sex, so I don't know well I know it's not the best thing to do after a vasectomy.
Recalibrating sex, sex as food
"You should see form as a man blind from birth, hear sounds as if they were echoes, smell scents as if they were winds, experience tastes without discrimination, touch tangibles in awareness of the ultimate lack of contact in gnosis, and know things with the consciousness of an ilusory creature. "
Licchavi Vimalakirti, Vimalakirti sutta
I just had sex again with this new girl I'm seeing. She has a better energy compared to my ex which was super hot but a toxic person we didn't last a month.
But in terms of overall energy, mental clarity and relaxation I feel 100 times better with this girl.
The difference is only the girl, my ex wasn't demanding or anything but she was just negative and a bad vibe in general.
I had sex with negative toxic people in the past. Maybe if you just have sex once it's not a big deal but whenever I keep having sex with the same toxic person one time after the other I started to become like a zombie and my general energy wasn't that shinning as usually is.
Conclusion: A hot girl but with a negative energy is like a very refined, delicious but unhealthy meal it can taste good but in the long run if you keep eating it it can intoxicate you. Even if you just eat it once
578 days semen retention
I would like to learn more about this spiritual part of sex, semen retention, sexual energy transmutation and try it. But I am not sexually active, so, according to the challenge's rules, I am not able to be part of this. Is there another challenge about it that I can me part of? And where should I start learning about all of it?
Thank you very much!
I am not sure what do you want. A challenge about sex? Information about sex? Semen retention challenge? Dating challenge ?
I'll try to explain. My English is not very good.
I want to learn how to do semen retention. If I understood it right, semen retention means never cuming, even while sleeping, and I don't understand how we can do this if we produce semen naturaly and it has to go somewhere. I would like to know how to do it, how to control my body that way. Once I am not sexually active, for now it would work for me as just not ejaculating while dreaming.
So I am looking for:
1 - information: where to find it and from where to start.
2 - I would like to be part of a semen retention group or challenge, like this one, to start trying it, receive support and learn from other people who have this same goal. So I would like to know if you know some challenge for me to enter.
I regards of semen retention I don't think many people here. Knows a lot about it and even less in regards of semen retention while having sex.
Usually this is full of people doing monk mode. But to really master long streak 9nly few people here do it regards of semen retention.
Information about it you can read my threads. This is the main one:
And about challenges to talk about semen retention. If you are hmm addict start to work first in getting rid of porn.
This challenge is the same as this one but without sex only s'en retention but it's not very active only to post your streak
The lorn of the ring challenge in a more interactive one and more active one.
You can read about semen retention :
The practice of brahmacharya by sivananda
The tao of health, sex and longevity by Daniel Reid
I'll study about it. I practice Yoga and know a little about tantra and brahmacharya and I believe in all of the things I read from you here in NoFAP. I was looking for information like this. I feel my struggle with porn has to do with energy and how I deal with it and that I need to understand better about this topic to be free, a better man and happy. I have downloaded the books and will start studying them today. And in future days, when I have a girl, I'll practice semen retention being sexually active and then come back here haha. I think it'll be very interesting. Thank you very much dude! Thank you.