The #1 Reason You Continue to Relapse

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Coak Hakola, Jul 24, 2021.

  1. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    One important point is lacking here and that is the joy of semen retention of no PMO

    If you are simply forcing yourself to make a streak then eventually you'll fail. You are going to put your guard down at some point because you are stressed out, tired, lazy...

    I have enjoyed every single day of this 500+ streak and to be honest many days I was lazy and didn't do any special meditation, sports or anything.

    I just like doing semen retention. You need to find the joy in it. Then there is no effort.
     
  2. Psalm27:1my light

    Psalm27:1my light Fapstronaut

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    I’m completely against my husband doing this! Lol
     
  3. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Of doing what? Semen retention?

    Yeah some women don't like it. I only met one who didn't, well two but I didn't have sex with that one. I found out as long as you give the girl an orgasm, she has no complains. Well, most of them.
     
  4. Psalm27:1my light

    Psalm27:1my light Fapstronaut

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    Yes semen retention. I get as much pleasure out of his orgasm as my own. Certainly don’t want him doing semen retention. Lol
     
  5. Coak Hakola

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    YES! I totally agree. The majority of people who fail do so because they think they're giving up something they "love." In other words, they think that they're giveing up something when they should be thinking that they're gaining something from semen retention. You have to switch your mindset to: "Semen retention is incredible and is something I love doing!"
     
  6. Coak Hakola

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    What do you like about his orgasm? Is it seeing his semen or do you enjoy the pleasure he gets? Because he can learn how to orgasm without ejaculation and still feel pleasure. I'm curious to know your thoughts because lots of people on here suggested men in relationships practice Karezza sex and I don't know if women will be down for that lol.
     
  7. wicket

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    Ya I have seen what I turn into when I stop being vigilant with what I know I have to do and I don't like what I see.
     
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  8. Psalm27:1my light

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    We actually have done Karezza too. I just like him feeling really good.,if he could orgasm without ejaculating I’d be fine and happy so long as I know he likes it. Since he doesn’t know how to orgasm without ejaculating I don’t want to play where I’m the only one having fun so to speak! Lol.
     
  9. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    It's more a feeling of balanced sexual long streak energy, but is not easy to get, some people never experience it no matter how long the streak is. That is why people relapse because the streak just causes tension and the orgasm gives pleasure and relieve.

    They joy of a balanced sexual energy gained through semen retention done right is greater than an orgasm. It's a revealing life changing experience.

    But is a real feeling just like the orgasm is a real feeling. Some people it takes 200 days to feel it others after 5 years streak do not feel it and relapse. When you experience it, you won't relapse again.

    It's not easy. But it's worth the effort.
     
  10. This is a fact,
    but idk need to be really vigilant as I have blocked P out of my life. Its not an option anymore.
    And once your brain changes, you will slowly lose interest .
     
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