Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Kratos_GOW, Jun 13, 2019.

Are you a warrior.?

  1. Yes

    496 vote(s)
  2. No, I am loser

    19 vote(s)
  3. I want to be

    269 vote(s)
  1. Espi1971

    Espi1971 Fapstronaut

    New rank coming soon my friend!

    I can relate to your struggle: I still think about and entertain urges and fantasies, but the longer I choose to avoid acting on them, the less power and intensity these urges have.

    I keep reminding myself that I won't be fooled. A few seconds of pleasure will not match the joy, energy, strength, and purpose that I feel along my newfound path.
  2. hollyman

    hollyman Fapstronaut

    day 6 cheking in

    please guard your mind bro

    as a quote that i found on "success story" section, @Warren_Beatty said " Engaging in sexual fantasies while trying to free yourself from PMO is like being a one legged man in an ass kicking contest " and i found this so true cause once i relapse because this kind of fantasy

    becarefull bro
  3. Checking in Day 25. Five more days to the next ranking.

    It’s progress like this that makes me proud about how much time has gone by that I’m almost a third of the way to 90.

    I do feel change in all the good way since I have not engaged in porn and problematic sexual behavior. Part of me doesn’t understand how I get myself in to certain situations with women when I don’t feel confident most of the time and do not like myself mentally and physically.

    I feel triggers everyday and still dwell on the past experiences I can’t fully let go, am I lingering because I want to learn what not to do? To learn from it and not repeat? And why do I still have a yearning to seek out new experiences with women, or chase women and try opening a door to something I’m not even suppose to be at?

    sorry for ranting, it helps to cleanse my mind and push through the day.

    stay strong Spartans!
  4. i_have_pizza

    i_have_pizza Fapstronaut

  5. All all

    All all Fapstronaut

    Well I saw one of my friends watch pictures online which were not actually that explicit but my primitive side took over and I fell for it. I didn't watch any site but just some images but this is hard mode and I won't tolerate this. I'll surely do better this time.

    Thanks a lot friend.
    Also I let someone close in my life onto this and even though it was very tough I think it is a big step forward.
  6. Kratos_GOW

    Kratos_GOW Fapstronaut

    I want you to do something for me. You need to accept the fact that the relapse happend because of me , not because of what my friend was seeing or what condom ad it was. "It was on me" Accept this fact. This may sound harsh but this is the main motto that got me this far and stopped me from chasser effect!
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  7. Kratos_GOW

    Kratos_GOW Fapstronaut

    Thats the way of life bro. PMO has made life hell for us. Rise above it keep going.

    Its cool, just dont fall into chasser effect. Keep yourself away for triggers for a week.

    Congrats on new rank

    U got it just 2 days more for new rank.

    One day a time. Good luck.

    Going great Espi. Next GOW in the making

    These are all mind games that the General(M) plays with us. Dont fall on its trap. You got this

    130 days man, I really loved watching at your counter. Thanks for being essential part of this group.
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  8. Kratos_GOW

    Kratos_GOW Fapstronaut

    65 Days in.
    "Those who always smile in this world are the STRONGEST"
    Dont loose your smile brothers, even at worse time deal with smiling.
    Dont give up, GO BEYOND PLUS ULTRA!!!!
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  9. Laurent

    Laurent Fapstronaut

  10. Espi1971

    Espi1971 Fapstronaut

    Congratulations on your advancing through the prestigious Ex-Ranks!

    You will not be denied.
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  11. Best_Avenger33

    Best_Avenger33 Fapstronaut

    21 days Check in!

    5th day in challenge!
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  12. Like @Kratos_GOW said “It was on me”

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  13. Wolfyoufeed

    Wolfyoufeed Fapstronaut

    You could try what I recently did. I did it around the same day streak that you are on.

    I spoke mentally to my body and mind.. like it was a real person.. yes it sounds crazy, but trust me, I feel like it worked and has boosted my progress far more than i imagined. So anyway.. I told it that it was not ok to get aroused at the sight of a beautiful women. That I wasn’t even ok to get excited unless “I” was the one who gave it the ok, (which would only be when it was time to have sex).

    I’ve tested it out... in fact, after a week or so of smaller tests, I decided to go all out and pretend I was seeing gorgeous naked women walking down the street. Before that talk I would have gotten a boner for sure. Today I didn’t. In fact if my mind wandered farther than I wanted, I told it no, this is it. I didn’t make the women disappear, but I didn’t allow myself to be triggered by it.

    One thing I forgot to mention, I included my God in prayer when I spoke to myself. The Bible says “commit all your plans to God and you will find success in all you do.” (Proverbs 16:3)

    Yeah, I know you all think I’m nuts. I’m old enough to not really care at this point. Hell, it might even help someone else, and I’m more than willing to look the fool to do that.

    *Head Nod*
  14. N4ruto

    N4ruto Fapstronaut

  15. Davyfreedom

    Davyfreedom Fapstronaut

    Let's do this! Check in day 0.
  16. Espi1971

    Espi1971 Fapstronaut

    Thank you!

    It's hard for me to stay depressed while smiling :)
  17. Espi1971

    Espi1971 Fapstronaut

    Rank tomorrow :)
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  18. Espi1971

    Espi1971 Fapstronaut

    Thank you for your candor and resilience.

    I see the good work you're doing. You have inspired others on this site, and that includes me. Thank you Soldier :)
    Last edited: Jan 21, 2020

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