THE 100 DAY SPARTAN CHALLENGE (OPEN)

Are you a warrior.?

  • Yes

    Votes: 896 63.3%

  • No, I am loser

    Votes: 39 2.8%

  • I want to be

    Votes: 480 33.9%
  • Total voters
    1,415
frosties said:
I relapsed :/ I feel so stupid, I was looking for a link to a murder movie "the Sitter" and of course ended up finding porn movies bc the world is twisted like that, then I relapsed even though I could have said no, I had the strength to and the arguments but I said "fuck you" to the side of my brain who was being reasonable. It's like, I know porn is not real sex and it's not what I would want in a relationship, but it's pretty much all I've known, I've been in it since I was 11, so it's something to realise that I need to cut it off. Therefore when I relapse, usually I think about how much I love it because it has comforted me for so long through the hard times I had growing up.
But eating candy was also something I did a lot as a kid, yet now I find it gross and can't even eat one because it's not real food. Porn's the same, I need to realise this
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Don't beat yourself too much about it, accept it as a temporary setback and just focus on trying to make it through the day :emoji_muscle::emoji_muscle:
 
frosties said:
I relapsed :/ I feel so stupid, I was looking for a link to a murder movie "the Sitter" and of course ended up finding porn movies bc the world is twisted like that, then I relapsed even though I could have said no, I had the strength to and the arguments but I said "fuck you" to the side of my brain who was being reasonable. It's like, I know porn is not real sex and it's not what I would want in a relationship, but it's pretty much all I've known, I've been in it since I was 11, so it's something to realise that I need to cut it off. Therefore when I relapse, usually I think about how much I love it because it has comforted me for so long through the hard times I had growing up.
But eating candy was also something I did a lot as a kid, yet now I find it gross and can't even eat one because it's not real food. Porn's the same, I need to realise this
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Is there something better to do than looking for movies? It might be a danger zone.
 
Irrelevant but didn't know where to share: Is it a common occurrence that people get pinged randomly with website links? It was disturbing to find such a message in my inbox today from some "new fapstronaut" I've never seen. That feels unsafe. I simply left the conversation, but is there a better protocol to deal with it?
 
frosties said:
I relapsed :/ I feel so stupid, I was looking for a link to a murder movie "the Sitter" and of course ended up finding porn movies bc the world is twisted like that, then I relapsed even though I could have said no, I had the strength to and the arguments but I said "fuck you" to the side of my brain who was being reasonable. It's like, I know porn is not real sex and it's not what I would want in a relationship, but it's pretty much all I've known, I've been in it since I was 11, so it's something to realise that I need to cut it off. Therefore when I relapse, usually I think about how much I love it because it has comforted me for so long through the hard times I had growing up.
But eating candy was also something I did a lot as a kid, yet now I find it gross and can't even eat one because it's not real food. Porn's the same, I need to realise this
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Its alright, it happens. It a marathon.
As a penalty for relapsing, i want you to take 2 days off and reflect on what happend.
https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/how-to-developed-no-pmo-mindset-day-75-special.333869/
Also read the post above i shared to get more insights and mindset development that will help me to be on guard.
 
bettermeeveryday said:
Irrelevant but didn't know where to share: Is it a common occurrence that people get pinged randomly with website links? It was disturbing to find such a message in my inbox today from some "new fapstronaut" I've never seen. That feels unsafe. I simply left the conversation, but is there a better protocol to deal with it?
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I think you should talk to the moderators on the site about this.
 
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