The best advice you will ever hear.

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Jack1211, Oct 28, 2019.

  1. SREENII

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    sorry if my comment hurts you..my english is not so good that sometimes i can't convey my statements correctly..by mentioning PMO in my very first comment..i didn't mean to specifically target on porn alone..it includes orgasm and masturbation as well..you know that this forum is only for sex addicts who have damage in their "reward circuitry and dopamine receptors" in their brain..in such a website where the readers are all sex addicts it's wrong to mention that "doing masturbation is fine"..because they came here for recovery and the rewiring of their brain's pathways..your advise may harm them.
     
  2. SREENII

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    no never..
     
  3. interesting point so do you think masterbating is not an option for addicts or even former addict because it stimulates old habits and pathways thus leading you back to relapse
     
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    it depends on the intensity of our addiction and the degree of hunger for sex drive in us..for a married person addicted to pmo..masturbation is not good..but having sex with their beloved partner is good.."former addict" is an ideal term..if there are any such persons who completely got recovery..then they will have no problem in masturbating..but i think there is no former addict in this forum as even a person on 500 days streak may not be recovered completely...so it's highly recommendable not to masturbate even if you are confident enough to label yourself as a "former addict"..actually your body doesn't needs it..if you can find happiness in your life without any drugs or masturbation..that would be great
     
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  5. Perhaps it's like quitting weed and still smoking tobbaco provided you enjoy both together and have endless supplys at hand. Quitting cold turkey then smoking tabbacco will reset your brain to a time when you smoked both.

    However if you only drop weed and still smoking tobbaco your kind of replacing the behaviour instead of letting your brain forget the old behavior

    If I only want to drop porn this may be a way to change the existing pathways instead of letting them die and creating new ones.
     
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  6. SuperPowers

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    Yes serious, these are facts.

    Your number one purpose (scientifically) is to procreate, to keep the species alive, so if you bust a nut, your system works on over drive in case you need to plant the seed. It gives it priority over everything.

    When we say energy, yes its physical energy but its also spiritual. What are you trying to get at, if you don't want to do semen retention don't do it, but you should at least try it for a month since you come this far.

    I can go on about how valuable the semen is, its the most powerful fluid you have in your body, its your male essence and has the ability to produce a baby. You wanna shoot that into a tissue you do that, but don't argue with me. I'm never busting a nut until I plan the seed.
     
  7. SuperPowers

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    And you wanna fee self worth? Busting nuts? Nah, sorry, you gotta retain that shit or you feel worthless, inferior, ashamed, beta, feminine, emotional, motivation and productivity is gone, semen retention is the fastest and easiest way to confidence and self worth. The semen is basically you, without it you're nothing. Well, your not half what you potential could be.
     
  8. you cant tell me where i get my self worth. just because fapping makes you feel worthless doesn't mean it makes my self.
     
  9. Get_It

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    Well okay. I think your message is loud and clear, you love fapping.
     
  10. love is a strong word but your here too
     
  11. CLICK HERE AND READ FIRST PARAGRAPH

    here shes says men produce millions of sperm everyday and it takes 2.5months so no matter if you fap today or not there is still going to be millions of new sperm cells coming in from 2.5months ago, every single day.

    so the body does not go into overdrive to make sperm, its a steady ongoing process that takes 2.5months.
     
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  12. SuperPowers

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    That's even more reason not to nut.
     
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    Just because you aren't directly conscious of it doesn't means its not affecting it. You're doing something in secret bro, something you don't really approve of (or why are you here?), so I can tell you with certainty, porn and masturbation is affecting your self esteem. It's inherently shameful, you're just yet to work it out intellectually. Its like weed man, its not good for you. If you're jacking it every 2-3 days you're depleting yourself. Even once a week is not doing you good. I've just decided I'll never watch porn again and I'll try never masturbate again and not nutting is the most important of all.
     
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  14. Hey man. Which book is that pic from?
     
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  15. Dude you got proven wrong accept it.
     
  16. Okay since we are playing this game im going to say you love killing people and your a serial killer because that's personal to you and even if you aren't conscious of it that how you feel inside because I know how you feel about yourself because and I can't stress this enough I'm not you.

    cleary were having differences so whatever you values are are not the same as mine so I'll say it again you don't dicided where I get my self worth I know where it comes from and I don't get brainwashed easily like you especially from a person like you that still hasn't backed up anything you said with an ounce of proof
     
  17. SuperPowers

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    But how, I thought we agree?

    Yeah i was wrong about the overdrive thing, maybe that's not a fact I don't know but I'm not rulling it out, theoretically it makes sense and I will post the link you have me to a youtuber, but if it takes 28 days or whatever then why would you squirt it in a tissue and flush it down the toilet? that's stupid. I don't think you're gtting it man, just start watching daily videos on semen retention on YouTube. I'm about to turn my TV on now.
     
  18. It takes around 73 days to make sperm. But the body produces millions of sperm daily. So that means it doesn't matter if you keep your semen in or not you get a new millions of sperm cells tomarrow regardless.

    It also proves that the making of the sperm isn't what drains you, I think that's what you are getting at about the body going into overdrive to make sperm.

    But like I said the body isn't going into overdrive. The process already started 73 days ago. And tomarrow new sperm will come in and that process started 73days ago and the new day new sperm will come in and that process started 73days ago and so on and so on.

    Its steady a process that doesn't start when you ejaculate so the feeling of being drained that starts after you ejaculate isn't related to making cum.
     
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  19. thegibbie

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    I am not sure I found in on google images.
     
  20. SuperPowers

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    What are you on about? You don't know what you're talking about. There are other forums you know? Bust nuts, watch porn, do what you want, just stay out of these forums. Peace
     

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