The Death-Grippers Club (Delayed Ejaculation, Death-grip Syndrome)

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by Philomath, Oct 28, 2018.

  1. Philomath

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    So yeah, it's pretty much right there in title!

    Death Grip or DGS (Death Grip Syndrome).

    The act of gripping the penis so tightly, it is conditioned and desensitized to such an extreme, that sexual intercourse feels empty. There is very little feeling. This leads to

    Delayed Ejaculation: DE, or sometimes known as Retarded Ejaculation.
    In a sense, this is the opposite of PE, premature-ejaculation. It takes forever. It can cause confidence problems, relationship problems (the partner feeling lacking, or unattractive) and blue ball problems.

    For anyone with DE can attest: we can go on for aeons, and I would personally like to finish before the human genome is fully decoded.

    The reason I feel a special thread will help on this - as while PIED, and other issues are porn issues, DE and DGS are somewhat special in also being a masturbatory issue. We are relatively rare, in the broad scope of this site. So I figured we need our own special place to drop in, and report how we are doing, our failures, our triumphs - and also keep on eye on each other.

    (Plus I like reading through the journals and success stories of those with DE. After all, that is what's most relevant to me.)

    Now let's heal up!

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    (I'm not sure if this thread should go here, or elsewhere.)
     
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  2. Pavel

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    hey!, how is it going there!, let me know, kudos!
     
  3. aka711

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    new here too, trying this exactly because of lost of sensitivity

     
  4. gametimemember

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    this is exactly my issue and the reason i joined up here.
    Please keep this thread alive and I am anxious to hear the experiences of others.
     
  5. MadJackMcMad

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    Hey there, I'm also on the same boat unfortunately
     
  6. Truedjinn

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    Sign me up....I didn't realize that I may have this until I read up on it earlier today.
     
  7. aka711

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    I wonder if anyone with the same issue can tell us how long it took to have its sensitivity back, just a experience based testimonial I know it might depend from person to person
     
  8. for me it was when I've hit my first 30 day streak.
    But now even with 3 or 4 relapses since then, I didn't loose my benefits.
    Nevertheless I still want to continue and get rid of PM alltogether, because I still think there is potential and I surley don't whant to fall back ever again
     
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  9. I should add, that I sufered under DE. Sometimes I wasn't even able to climaxe at all.
    Now I have no problems with it at all, and everything feels more intense than ever before (even compared to PMO)
     
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  10. aka711

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    good to hear that, i have the same problem, i can orgasm without condom but it takes ages, with condom almost never....one question, when you relapsed, you changed the way you masturbated too? like the pressure of the grip so you would not fall into old habits?
     
  11. not really, but I didn't have to put a lot of pressure in, because it involved visual edging for mostly one hour or the other time I had a 14 day streak so it was real quick with the hands tbh.
     
  12. But my goal is to quit masturbation alltogether, because it has some other negative effects for me, too in terms of lethargy and so on. Plus I simply don't want to risk it falling back, struggeling with the DE thing. Or even anorgasmia.
     
  13. aka711

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    that’s true, my biggest streak was 20 days and I started feeling difference in sensitivity. I want to quit excessive PMO, I don’t have lethargy problems or problem feeling aroused by partner. I love sex and can perform really well ( some of it even like because having DE could let me go
    like forever) but I want to orgasm together with the other person and while in sex intercourse, not with my own hand to finish it up like it has been my whole life
     
  14. I know how you feel. It's the same story for me.
    But for me I know just pull it out before I bust because you don't have to penetrate all the time. So this is my solution for the performance part or however you want to call it.

    +I really talk about this a lot with my parter, but she felt insecure, because I needed so long and couldn't finish back then. So now it's better for us both.
     
  15. aka711

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    yes, i have been asked lots of time if i was having a good time because I could not finish. It’s not cool

    um noé quer
     
  16. gametimemember

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    Thanks guys, this helps alot.
    I'm on a 15 day streak right now and will probably have sex tonight.
    I'm expecting the sensations to be much more powerful after these two weeks, and hopefully O with vaginal stimulation only.
    Wish me luck, lol
     
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  17. S_Jay

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    This is the main reason why I joined. Porn is only an intermittent problem, but that's getting worse when I worry about lack of sensation. So yeah let me keep tabs on this.
     
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  18. aka711

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    keep us informed
     
  19. gametimemember

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    Ok here's my update;
    Saw my girl last night and had a great night. We had sex late once we got in bed and the sensation we're definitely more meaningful and I was able to stay hard without any major concentration or focusing on anything else (which happens to be big for me}, I was just able to stay in the moment.
    Full disclosure, I was high, took a Xany and we polished off two bottles of wine so I couldn't finish. I do not attribute it to DE or lack of sensation as I honestly felt better than sex has get for me in years. Continuing with no PM and will report back after my next attempt but I really feel like this is major progress.
     
  20. gametimemember

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    Just wanna keep this topic fresh. Anyone have anything new to report on this front? I'm probably at least a few days if not a week from trying again.
     

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