The dreaded "flatline"

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Feeling no fapulous, Jun 12, 2017.

  1. Feeling no fapulous

    Feeling no fapulous Fapstronaut

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    Im a 28 year old male looking to start this nofap journey. My biggest concern is the cursed "flatline" aka fapline. Ok I made that up. But I guess you could say I need some reassurance that this thing doesn't get out of hand and I could enjoy sex once again. I've been having some trouble getting up lately when me and my girl have sex. We've been together for about 10 years (we have 2 kids together) and I don't want her to think I'm unattracted to her. And when I do get an erection I ejaculate before she even starts moaning. It frustrates both me and her which is why I really want this to work. I'm already severely depressed and don't really have much energy or motivation so I'm afraid this might only amplify it or make it a permanent condition. I've looked on these forums and see that some of these "flatline" cases last anywhere from 2 weeks to 2 years. It also doesn't help that everyone makes it seem like it's the worst thing they ever went through. This is day 1 for me on my path to greatness after I relapsed after 4 days. The only reason I relapsed is because of this preconceived notion about the flat line. Men in today's society are defined by their sexual prowess and erections during intercourse and if I can't get the boners like I use too after this (even though I have PE and sometimes ED every now and then) it will devestate me. Anyone else out there feeling like me? Let me know because I definitely need some advice and/or feedback on how to deal with this.
     
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  2. Mattsfreedom

    Mattsfreedom Fapstronaut

    Welcome to the site. Check out yourbrainonporn.com. There's a video on there very close to what your going through that you might find helpful.
     
  3. Feeling no fapulous

    Feeling no fapulous Fapstronaut

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    Thanks Matt I'll look that up now
     
  4. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    Check out In Case You Didn't Know for strategies and tips which may help you along your journey.
     

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