THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | CLOSED

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by primordial-saiyan, Apr 2, 2019.

Have you beaten your record or improved your average noPMO since joining this?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. @Saiyan123

    22, M, Single. My current streak is 5 days, longest streak was 262. Ready to duel!
     
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  3. Leader of ME

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    Hello .
    Saiyan is busy these days and this thread function very differently from the beginning .
    Look out for somebody who is available like you .
    I am glad you are here .

    Once you find someone, arrange the duel between you here .
     
  4. Turtleboi

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    Checking in for the day. It's okayish today, but I faced some urges at the morning when I just woke up. They were pretty aggressive and hard to defeat for a sleepy me, though I am sure that conscious me can take them on without a problem. Pretty sure these weird urges fucked up my body somehow, so I had to be faster in defeating them.
     
  5. Karnakavach555

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  6. Becoming Jasmine

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    Thanks! My longest is now 15 days though ;)
     
  7. NeverTooLate

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  8. Enigma897

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    @Saiyan123 @primordial-saiyan

    17, M, My current streak is 4 days and my highest ever streak is 14 days but i know i am going to beat it with the current streak i have now! I am ready to duel so please match me up with someone.
    thanks
     
  9. Alex_Al

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    Hey pal... Welcome in "duels".
    So 262 days? That's awesome.
    And what was the reason of the reset? I m asking cause i m in day 290. Any advice?
     
  10. Leader of ME

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    @Enigma897 @NeverSurrender823


    So.. Again will back up my words with a research . (this may seem kind of funny to all, but actually helps me a lot ) European Union ideology of gender equality of payment . Here it comes . The idea is men and women to be paid same for the same job . Since average people earn basic income .. For example a male works 9-5 getting paid 2 000 euro and I woman getting paid 2 000 . What a woman will look for in such a man ? He probably high quality male, let's assume, good, fair . And if the income is level, how he, if he ain't mentally supreme, will be competitive with his woman looks ? For example, He is a male earning 2 000 good looking and she is 2 000 good looking (but other male want her, cause of her looks, which is not happening with male the same way, and it is fully okay . ) She is starting to look for other options automatically .

    Here is the thing a male got to earn at least twice, or thrice more money than his wife . Because he is already in debt, because of her looks, nature and her options being a woman . Can you see how they promote marriage problems ? With there ''good'' intention ? Yeah, one should not be paid less because of the gender possessed . But that structure is not working in making happy families all over the world . Even the woman stays with the man, she acts bossy in those situations .

    PMO mentality is something that took over the world by force and the chance for us to escape it consequences is to always RECOGNISE it. That is the only way to FIGHT against it .

    If you are a male today, which is the case with many of us here in this thread and community, you got to work hard on your mind, finances, attitude.. cause women are already up front with there appearance and social skills . And being a male in social situations nowadays is so awkward , social life and social media is WOMEN life . So we got to find our way, cause if we cannot ...

    It leads to PMO, depression and suicide (90% in the world are males )
     
  11. Leader of ME

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    Money is not everything and so important as I stated, but that brings CONFIDENCE . And we know where lack of confidence lead us to .
     
  12. Enigma897

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    That's a good way of looking at it, you are really right.
     
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  13. Leader of ME

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    I meant if you want to duel each other .
    I am just spilling some random thoughts .
     
  14. Alex_Al

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    Surely we all agree that men and women are all equal but we are clearly not the same. We have different roles to play in society. More or less this applies also from man to man and from woman to woman depending on the particular gifts of each. That doesn't make anyone superior or inferior. We are all members of one body (as the apostle Paul beautifully describes). Each member is just as valuable and useful for the whole body in a different way though. In our time we have confused the meaning of being "same" with "equal". That's why even the special characteristics of the sexes have been lost, among other things. Big discussion. For sure we all have a share of responsibility for what happens today. Change will not come with simple thoughts about what's going on. It isn't a philosophical problem. Change will come with inner awakening, personal repentance and change, with the personal sacrifice of each. Although every different point of view respected.
    P.S. sorry for my english guys
     
  15. I agree with you @Alex_Al. I would not be against earning less than a man because my priorities are different but I would very much prefer to be respected and not discriminated for choosing my priorities. Because men and women should complement each other and not compete who is more powerful. Men are powerful when they rise up in their masculinity and women are powerful when they stand in their femininity, and these are two different aspects.
    Yes, you're right. And money equals power, they add power to a man.
     
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  17. NeverTooLate

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  18. Leader of ME

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    That is a way for you to practise, greek Friend . I encourage you to always speak your mind .

    As far as the body go.. Yes we are different, that is what I mean . But the body is not yours, it is a social one ''society'' . From one side all men, from the other- all women . And what we have when we search for financial equality ? Divorces, women controlling men, unhappiness in marriage, homosexuals . It ain't only the addiction corrupting the soul, but these basic things of human life shape our reality . A woman got to respect the man for a happy life and nowadays, sad to say, we as people are very materialistic, so if this is so.. at least this respect will be something that can hold relationship tight . I know you prolly will say that is not the right way, but if it gets the result is something better than none .
    And women need security and protection and being not powerful as man won't get you no where.
    And a powerful woman, who needs no man is not to be promoted. Cause there happiness in relationship goes..

    If I am too much in talking, let me know, to shut up . I just find it good distraction to all of us. Better thing to talk than.. the Devil itself .
     
  19. Hats off, @WolfHound 獣, you nailed it. Just one small detail - if something happens to a man, he gets seriously ill or dies, a woman also needs to live somehow. Yeah that's a difficult question with many scenarios. I don't like this over-masculinisation of women, it distorts our role. Anyway, a great discussion inspiring myself to just follow my intuition and my own path. I feel so very much respected and even protected by men in my close environment. They are like reading my mind and giving the help I need. Feels just awesome.
     

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