I am carrying on the challenges. Challenges are not a big problem now. Daily routine is stable and urges are less. My kung fu is strong now. But this site is starting to become an addiction for me now so i post once in 5 days. If i reset or relapse, then, i post in the forum immediately. I have to put this restriction on myself. All stay strong... @primordial-saiyan - please note @Calisthenics4Stoics - I am going no where man. You said one year
@ola501 Sorry for not reporting this earlier, but I lost the duel two days earlier. The urges just crept up like toxic fumes and I lost control. Going to try again
It alright man, I also had strong urges M, and almost gave in. But I was lucky I wasn't alone in that moment and got out of it. Every time we fall its important to rise and fight back stronger! Eventually we will reach our goals!
This forum is crazy . One introduces the thing and everybody jump on it . Nothing bad in the idea but . There are certain thing that come to my mind . Yes, that is life . Pure . No sex . No M . No P. No digital intoxification . No drugs. No alcohol . etc. etc. No bad food. No this no that . But is it life about the No ? NO . Be careful . Yes, we can go for a day in the nature . ( I go regularly ) but .. tackle things one by one, step by step . And not all is to be cut off . Imagine your life without ''all the bad'' For some time I am not drinking, smoking , watching P, I fapped 4-5 days ago, but whatever, not much series to watch, not much free time .. and ask yourself what is you going to do ? How your mental will prosper ? Just ask about your mental before starting anything . Abstinence can break you, if you are not prepared . Much love .
Day 0 Number is getting reset, Progress is not. Here we go again @Karnakavach555 how's it going for you?
Life is about knowing when it's the right moment to say yes and when it's the right moment to say yes. You're wise my friend. A detox is good if it is made for a short period of time or forever for some "big thing" like porn. Just to remind you to not get intoxicated. No more. In the right amount everything kills you. Even abstinence.
I am new. Joined yesterday.. I Don't know the options of the website. I am on 4th day of my abstinence..
@Gandalf the White I'm in. I challenge you for 30 days. I you want to change the number of days of challenge you're welcomed.
On day 322 my brother. No urges, no temptations... Only my thoughts make noise inside my head and make me feel down from time to time... Nothing serious although. I just need to block these thoughts and see always the positive side and the beauty of life. We cannot focus on difficulties, but in the sunshine after the storm. After every storm. And you know something... Bigger storm, bigger sunshine! Have a nice week brother. I wish the sun illuminate your life and dispel the darkness of our souls.
You are right. Life isn't about the No. Life is about the Yes. So the point is not that we say "no" to certain things. Truth is that we just say "yes" to some that are worthwhile. Therefore fatally there are some "no's" to the contrary. Means that we don't focus on "no" but on "yes" or at least that's the thought.
