THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN FOR ALL

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by HiddenWarrior, Apr 2, 2019.

Have you beaten your record or improved your average noPMO since joining this?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. Cool, grats on 7 days! keep it up, don't stop.
     
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  2. Hardcandy

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    Thanks, it’s fine. WD saved me... How are you?
     
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  3. fg4795

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    good thanks, I woke up very early today, that's why I'm already answering you :)
     
  4. @Saiyan123 relapsed last Night on day 7 to some stupid
    jerk off instruction on YouTube.
    I actually really had a perfect day yesterday. There was also a bit of alcohol involved.
    I'm not too sure what to do about it though rn
     
  5. Turtleboi

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    @ThisTrainDontStop Checking in for the day. The urge to do jackshit has abated, even though I still feel lazy from time to time. Some minor things(like really minor, but one of them is kinda big because it made me feel this feeling that you get when you leave something familiar behind for good) making me feel less than comfortable, but I can deal with that. Been thinking about making some extra cash, but I don't really feel like putting effort into it for some reason.
     
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    @Saiyan123 how many days are you in your current streak? Still the same? :cool:
     
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  8. I'm making a statement. Social norms say '' do not kill'' + religion ones . I ain't murdered nobody yet. Nor I have the desire to, but. Here is the thing. It is provocative and you can label it as one of my questions. Animals kill each other everyday. Human kill each other everyday, too, but let me stay on point. Don't you think a murder is completely okay? Like.. In all of us are those desires which are dark and animalistic and suppressing them makes us not authentic. ''fake'' . Isn't lifelong hatred complete ***** move? I have recently seen pranks in you tube. Young people, couples, go hand by hand and a fake murderer with axe comes out. 4 out of 4 which I have seen, the male runs faster and let the girl behind. I know the fear is huge. Personally, I would be terrified. Which will made me tackle the charger as fast as possible, cause I will be scared. I know there types of people like me, psychologically. But to let the girl be murdered because you can't stand your ground? A girl which came out with you. I just cannot understand it. But back to the topic, I think this is reaction of the suppression . There is that institute of self-defense in the criminal law, but let no talk about it. Let's discuss some premeditated murder. Is it okay morally for you to let somebody to rest if he/she is doing crazy damage to you, threatens you, or let say it is a ''need'' . Please brother Christian and brother muslims and non believers I am really open to hear and would feel great about it. Don't you think a murder is ''real'' and authentic ? Monkeys kill each other, why we think we are more than monkeys in this regard?
     
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  9. Awesome nice sword ;) and for sure you've got this my friend. Thanks for your help also.
    @Alex_Al is taking a break from internet, he feels he's beaten the enemy, so he's taken on internet addiction. I am up for duelling again for sure against you. I'm happy you're doing more stuff in real life tbh even if it does take you away from here as that's what matters.
    :D summer time is difficult. like l'empereur said it's like the girls can't afford any clothes xD
    I feel like you've improved a lot, you've always been strong but I really feel a true strength renewed in you now. That sentence of shining out light instead is beautiful.
    This was very interesting to read, good luck on year 4 and for sure your writing skills have improved. I like all the realisations you made too :)
     
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  10. I looked through the window saw two young males acting like the neighborhood is their possession. Never seen ''em before. They don't wanna be exposed. Don't want none. Man, they got my blood boil, thinking they something. Here. As much as I wanna relax. Damn, they bring out my best intentions.
     
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  11. Hi guys how are you doing? After I ended my 7 day "streak" this day was a total mess.. I went full pmo 3 times since I now discovered a workaround for my filters.
    This whole day was a mess since the beginning. I've slept in Didn't do my routines And didn't plan my day yesterday.

    I will reflect a lot upon this so this won't happen again.
    But I will get back on track. And grow stronger. I think about getting rid of my filters because the access isn't a problem. It's the lack of awareness and willpower from my side. What do you think about it?
     
  12. @L'empereur
    Hell no it's not. Stopping yourself from acting on impulses doesn't make you "fake", it makes you disciplined. Is the person who stops themself from impulsively committing suicide being "fake"? Of course not. They're just using the rational part of their brain to reason through their actions, instead of just being an extension of their brain stem.
    The only time killing someone is justified is self-defense. No one's job is to be a vigilante.
     
  13. On 3 I've been quiet on here for a while, focusing off my phone and on control for day 0-3 which are sometimes a problem. Haven't let me have any urges or fantasising so been doing good last couple of days. How are you doing? Hope you get through your urges.
     
  14. Interesting you say this, I will give a good answer to this insha Allah. One verse that hit me when I read this was about self defence, or in defence of persecution of women and children:

    وَمَا لَكُمۡ لَا تُقَٰتِلُونَ فِي سَبِيلِ ٱللَّهِ وَٱلۡمُسۡتَضۡعَفِينَ مِنَ ٱلرِّجَالِ وَٱلنِّسَآءِ وَٱلۡوِلۡدَٰنِ ٱلَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَآ أَخۡرِجۡنَا مِنۡ هَٰذِهِ ٱلۡقَرۡيَةِ ٱلظَّالِمِ أَهۡلُهَا وَٱجۡعَل لَّنَا مِن لَّدُنكَ وَلِيّٗا وَٱجۡعَل لَّنَا مِن لَّدُنكَ نَصِيرًا

    Why should you not fight in God’s cause and for those oppressed men, women, and children who cry out, ‘Lord, rescue us from this town whose people are oppressors! By Your grace, give us a protector and give us a helper!’?

    ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُواْ يُقَٰتِلُونَ فِي سَبِيلِ ٱللَّهِۖ وَٱلَّذِينَ كَفَرُواْ يُقَٰتِلُونَ فِي سَبِيلِ ٱلطَّٰغُوتِ فَقَٰتِلُوٓاْ أَوۡلِيَآءَ ٱلشَّيۡطَٰنِۖ إِنَّ كَيۡدَ ٱلشَّيۡطَٰنِ كَانَ ضَعِيفًا

    The believers fight for God’s cause, while those who reject faith fight for an unjust cause. Fight the allies of Satan: Satan’s strategies are truly weak.
    -Sura An-Nisa', Ayah 75-76

    There are a lot of laws regarding self defence, often misinterpreted so I intend to give a sufficient answer from the scholars of Islam insha Allah.
     
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  15. What is in your opinion the view on laws in Islam? Like the very nture of laws in a practical and a philisophical sence.
     
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  16. Jag Hyde

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    Day 44 - Checking in.
     
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  17. The Qur'an for us is a book of law as much as guidance, Islam is a whole socio-political economic system, there's just no true representation of it implemented in this world currently, an example of why I say this is because, for one example there is no 'riba' in Islam, this is usury and interest and this is completely prohibited in Islam. In this world there is no system without interest. Think about where that interest comes from and how it contributes to inequality.

    It is a whole system of life for muslims/non-muslims to follow, in the revelation of 'God'. I don't wish to offend any Christians or Jews at all but God in Islam is the same God who revealed the Torah and the Gospels. However we believe he is 'Allah' which is a singular word in itself and cannot be added to -son, -dess like the word God so he is one to Muslims. I know majority of Christians believe in the trinity concept but this doesn't exist in Islam as it is only Allah, who is one. We believe he is 'As-Samad' who is One Who does not give birth, nor was He born, because there is nothing that is born except that it will die, and there is nothing that dies except that it leaves behind inheritance, and indeed Allah does not die and He does not leave behind any inheritance. So we believe he begets none, nor is begotten. And there is none comparable to Him - meaning that there is none similar to Him, none equal to Him and there is nothing at all like Him. One of his names is the tremendous/supreme. One of them is the Most High. If you want to know more, feel free to message out of respect in regards to other beliefs.

    Islamic jurisprudence is called 'Fiqh'. It has one of the major legal systems of the world which is beautiful in my opinion. I can refer you to some resources of explanation of verses by the major islamic scholars as this is the proper way to learn Insha Allah (God willing) and not by self interpretation and learn with historical context also.

    Then We have put you on a (legal) way of commandment. So follow you that, and follow not the desires of those who know not.
    Verily, they can avail you nothing against Allah. Verily, the wrongdoers are protecting friends of one another, but Allah is the Protector of those who have Taqwa (God-consciousness/piety/awareness of God).
    This (Qur'an) is a clear insight and evidence for mankind, and a guidance and a mercy for people who have faith with certainty. - [45:18-20]

    Hope I answered your question well, feel free to message me for any resources.
     
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  18. Grip36

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    Daily Check in! Still good!
     
  19. fg4795

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  20. Day 140
    Very productive day ...
    I read the post of many people here in their 15, 25, 66, 70 days.... Look at their bravery and reminisce how once I used to b sailing in the Same boat
    For all my dear fighters I want you to know that one day you will look back at your struggle and be proud of yourselves...
    Also i want to add after 120 days urges are basically zero unless you are suffering from extreme stress/emotional turmoil :)
    Good luck everyone
     

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