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THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN FOR ALL

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by HiddenWarrior, Apr 2, 2019.

Have you beaten your record or improved your average noPMO since joining this?

  1. Yes

    281 vote(s)
    75.7%
  2. No

    90 vote(s)
    24.3%
  1. I'm really dreaming that day
     
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  2. I'm looking forward to it, what benefits have you felt coming so far? might help everyone for motivation :)
     
  3. 3 more people reached their highest whilst duelling and fighting hard for themselves that makes me happy :)
     
  4. Will update duels now finally, have like 10 pages to go through but I am free finally to spend my evening on this. :) looking forward to some good battles and duels.

    Just to update people interested on my life if they want to know why I've been so busy, I got my results back, they weren't too good like I expected, went in there with problems, spent a lot of time on here and reading Qur'an instead of revising also I was addicted bad at the time, but I've learnt a lot from here especially that I have to care more about my future. If you remember a post I did on this thread about pressures and expectations and I was very demotivated and carefree whilst typing that. Kind of angry at society and not seeing the good in it, not too interested in money and that was the wrong perspective for anyone thinking this way. Really happiness for me comes from the happiness of my society, the goodness. I don't say this meaning I don't care about myself but I really truly am happy seeing people doing well. This thread/community has made me realise that I have to lead by actions and not just words if I am to lead one day. People have got to see me as a reliable person to talk from experience and that will happen Insha Allah. So next tests, I intend to revise from a lot earlier and build a routine for my life which is well needed.

    I have family problems and I discussed how to try to fix these with my parents and we have a plan underway, I finished the Qur'an aswell and prayed to Allah to help all of our problems. We can do this. That was probably the longest time I have been off this thread and for around 2-3 weeks I've not sorted it when I should've so I apologise and I will work harder, I promise on keeping this updated, fresh and a good community for all of us. Thanks for reading if you did so.
     
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  5. It is hard to divide the NoFap benefit from the NoFap related so I'll list everything it's better than it will be up to you decide if it is indirectly or directly related to NoFap:
    -growing hair(I was losing them now they are also more dense)
    -reduced brain fog
    -feel my mind more powerful and able to take more intense effort
    -able to concentrate a lot easier
    -regained willpower
    -resistance to pain(yesterday my mates after the match refused to take the shower until the water would have been hotter, I took it immediately feeling it a bit warm)
    -body strength and ability to push me over my limits(I had my workout harder and harder for 81 days in a row never had a rest day)
    -willingly to improve everything (I took online course about psychology but also I Always have been good in soccer but suck in sports like tennis or pingpong, I'm training bc I just want to win everything)
    -this is risky and controversial but in this period I feel more social and I feel people social to me
    Probably many people would love that I wrote that now girl are falling for me but you know personally I believe it's not directly related but just it's obvious that if before you spent all your time fapping in your home and now you go out statistically you'll meet someone, for me it's harder bc of my introversial character but still don't want to sell easy hope. Just get better for yourself and you'll be happy
     
  6. AaronM

    AaronM Fapstronaut

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    I think it's easier for me to stay cool since I started rebooting. Like I have changed the wave of lust into wave of "aha i have a problem and i want to find a solution"
     
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  7. Wow that's amazing, a lot of new ones too I haven't heard of but makes sense. I need to win, this inspires me!
     
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  8. Stay strong brother! You got this, be alert over these days.
     
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  9. First of all, I am not happy seing your counter. You can do better and will.

    'Bout the duel. I accept. If he would like me too. I don't really believe I can take him, since he is strong and I respect him and his efforts, but I will try to give my best too, so I can motivate his recovery while motivating mine. I would be honored to be matched up against him. Thank you.
     
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  10. I wanna share, if you may. That I completely understand you now. The addict mind, how it works. Searching deep in my addiction. There, in my case, is one main that triggers everything else like a domino. It is music. I feel the withdrawals very fast, very strong. From reading the forum I know that the PMO addicted sees porn images in his head from time to time, I hear lyrics and beats. They just don't wanna go away, until the beat drops and I am relapsing to an awful negative thing. Right now, it would be the hardest for me. I am completely trying to change my music preferences to relaxing, calm, meditative. They often got me aggressive but maybe exactly that is the withdrawal from aggressive music, maybe, I am lacking it.

    One more. I hanged out with a boy of mine, just after a 1on1 basketball game. The two of us going home, we met 2 group of girls. I certainly felt the energy of the PMO addict in him. And that portraits me in a bad way, hanging with him. Unfortunately, a bad persona is attacking your mood highly.

    I am in a great streak of mind. I just hope not to relapse. I don't mean PMO wise, but I am sure that if I am not in full control of my mind PMO relapsing will come in no time. Maybe not immediately but after a week, two. But eventually will come for sure. Before PMO will come bad eating.

    I am glad that every single one of you is deeply striving for his progress, you inspire me. Thank you.
     
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  11. bluedragon9

    bluedragon9 Fapstronaut

    Sorry it's been a long time, I was offline. How you are doing brothers? @Saiyan123 @CoolBuddy7 @prince san and others. I'll try to check in more often now. Starting again from day 0

    Edit:- seems like 12 days were my longest streak
     
  12. Faiziarbb

    Faiziarbb Fapstronaut

    @Sayian123 Bro i am on day 12 right now !
     
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  13. @L'empereur
    That's interesting. For me, music is actually one of my most effective strategies to beat urges. However, none of my music has lyrics, so that might be the important difference.

    I listen both to really high-energy stuff and more calm meditative things. I think it's important to remember that music can be energizing without creating a feeling of aggression. But I would say calm music is also great and helpful for focus as well.
     
  14. I slipped. I think @Pedro.lives won though he wasn't there at all. Anyway, congrats @Pedro.lives. I think I really need some sex. :)
     
  15. you, me, @Tiger uppercut! , @DekuHope, @T H A N O S the titan and @bluedragon9 all fell on the same day. I am not dumb enough to call that a coincidence. This is a war, there is no doubt and you are one of our finest warriors! This is a war and the enemy fights in hordes, waiting in ambush for us provoking us and battling us. We will win but we need to make the level of effort more than ever before, it's time for our attack on the enemy by making it stunned by our resilience and persistence.
     
    Last edited: Jul 21, 2019
  16. You're right in what you say, I am not happy either. I will do better insha Allah, for sure it's in my capabilities.

    I've always given you strong opponents and I think you could really fight @ujing well, you have great strength way above normal capacity. It's just you need to use that always as @CoolBuddy7 said you need to keep showing you have a beast mentality.
     
  17. Will make all duels tomorrow, half the job done but I'll make good matchups for sure. Fight hard, we are an army remember that! Brothers and sisters in this war. We will win!!!
     
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  18. Bihari

    Bihari Fapstronaut

    Checking in
    Monday.
     

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