THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN FOR ALL

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by HiddenWarrior, Apr 2, 2019.

Have you beaten your record or improved your average noPMO since joining this?

  1. Yes

    198 vote(s)
    76.2%
  2. No

    62 vote(s)
    23.8%
  1. Alex_Al

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    My friend,
    about the check... how do you propose?
    I want to hear what do you prefer most... And i ll try to fit it.
    Thnx about your kind words. I m sure that i ll try my best not to disappoint you. Also you have to know that you are an inspiration for me. Not only cause you have a very nice streak but cause you are an active member and with your posts you inspire us. Very happy with this duel i have to admit. It feels great to have a strong opponent. Better, a strong co-fighter!!!
     
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  2. Paf-On

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  3. fg4795

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    Well as you said, we're not opponents, we're co-fighters, so I think that the best option for the duel is the one you were using against @Snakeloa, like once a week but not a simple check, we'll also share thoughts and feelings. If we're doing good and so on.
    Anyway thanks for your kind words, I really appreciate them.
     
  4. Turtleboi

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    Well, I'm back to square one. Tbph, I have no idea what got me this time. Maybe it was stress, or me being in a celebratory mood, or the fact that I wasn't very disciplined recently. Also, realized that basing my motivation extrinsically doesn't work, don't be like me guys.
     
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  5. master3

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    You asked a good question that i have no direct answer to. I think my biggest drive for looking up escort is loneliness, even with porn. Whenever im involved with a girl i usually stop by bad porn and escorts habit but whenever that relationship ends i usually fall back to my habit. I know that its bad that my NoFap is dependent on wether im involved with a girl or not, and its something that i should work on. The latest of days i've been looking up escort. It seems like it doesn't have the same level of excitment as before and im doing it more as a bad routine now.
     
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  6. Hi ,
    I am here .
    I was wondering should I come in or not today . It is 8 pm and I am finally free. I did Law, workout and French today .
    I did myself a salad - Carrot, cabbage + Extra virgin. My hidden weapon it is . Simple but effective .
    I have court tomorrow, academic purposes, but I am anxious about it .
    Todays workout was impressive actually. Worked hard. Could do 3x5 pistol one-legged jump squats .
    Actually my father said I bulked on muscle, a basketball buddy seen me yesterday, he said ''wow, you big '' and I beat him 1on1 2 games in a row after that.
    So muscle is good, French is improving, even though I am clear newbie, hopeful things will change fast . ( I work hard on it . ) Ca va aller .

    PMO wise.. Guys it is always worth it. 12 hours today working on my goals almost non stop, had a rest cause I am clever nowadays at noon .
    Some PRO tips : Strength is in your routine !
    Turn of your phone . That is a biggy . I developed the habit of turning off my phone . Boss move, for real. No chances of unfamiliar calls, unwanted messages, scrolling and procrastinating. It is great, great . Only danger is important call, actually I mean someone in need. But it is good to have the time only for myself , anyway . ( I switched on after I was done with all I wanted, NO distractions )

    Semen retention wise - dreams are here. They are happening, I am writing them down. Good thing is there are no nocturnal emissions so far and I am going strong in my dreams . Had O one night, but managed to deal with it .

    I am no PRO at life, actually I am an avenger, more of a watcher than doer, and things may change when it is ''big game'' time, but, I am saying that with my tips and vision I just wanna share what I know and what works for me, it may work for you . Sharing is loving .

    Thank you for having me. Much love .
     
  7. To be frank with y'all, it all started when I was young. I was separating from lies and fakeness at the age of like 12 , so I was pretty awake. I wanna say that I am very familiar with tactics like turning off the world for some odd reasons. Per Example , likes in ''NoFap'' I turned them off while ago and left only when somebody wanna contact with me . Great change . Now I have the scheme of coming in the forum which brings Great things with it. Real forum Discipline. I explained why I stay away 1) Due to the NoFap word combination 2) Bad energy man.. bad energy. Next time I am here I will concentrate on writing on bad energy .

    Have a nice day/morning/night .
     
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  8. Timmyrogger

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    @ohayou615 hi friend i lost to the sensation again... now i will reset my counter...
    i am extremely disappointed on myself
     
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  9. Timmyrogger

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    yup freind this happens to me too after a month of abstinence i also have satisfactory errection but i eventualy fail and than i fell into depresion which tend to make my mode and errection worse
     
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  10. Kratos_GOW

    Kratos_GOW Fapstronaut

    I m good my friend i wasnt in my right mind. I will devote more of my time here.
     
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  11. Turtleboi

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    @waiter95 wasn't aware I'm in a duel now lol. Anyway, checking in for the day. Today was quite productive and I managed to follow my plans for the first time since a long time ago. Feeling so good about myself now.
     
  12. AllenJT

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  13. I'm on day 12, my best streak was 8 months. But fell off for a few months.
     
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  14. MaxLivre

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    Hi, My name is Max and I'm 17 years old.
    I finally got the strength to embark on this journey again. I am currently on a 9 day streak it seems and thus I am ready for a duel/challenge.

    All the best,
    Max.
     
  15. AllenJT

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    Checking in, ran into a trigger today out of nowhere while I was studying and nearly fell. Thankfully, though, just as I was getting ready to succumb completely, I realized what I was doing and got angry at myself and at the material that I was looking at (I won't count it as a relapse this time because it wasn't really one compared to all my other relapses and I was able to rebound right after). Then I got rejuvenated, went to my Physics lab, then went and ran for roughly 90 minutes and about 6 miles after not having ran for several months. Needless to say, I am very tired right now. I've got a lot of stuff I need to do tomorrow but then after that it's pretty much smooth sailing. Anyways, still going and I hope all of you are too.
     
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  16. Hi,
    I am here.
    Not much happen since the last time I came. Activity is low. (in the duels )
    I just hope my friends are okay, cause I haven't heard from you.
    Thank you for having me.
    Much love .
     
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  17. I promised to drop some words on bad energy. ''Protect your energy from YOU and yours '' . This is the worst. Self-control = protecting your energy from you. From others, don't think anybody is a friend, unless he is relentless on you . Appreciate yourself more than everything . You are magic. Much love . Never settle less for less than I smile. You deserve being with people without bad vibes, doing activities which brings joy.
    Uptade ot 2020. I remember I said I am coming, I am.
     
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  18. Turtleboi

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    @waiter95 Checking in for the day. Yesterday was fantastic, I actually managed to finish all my goals and more before nine. Felt so good about myself. Would've done so today if I didn't get cocky and celebrated with around 2-3 hours of gaming, but I still got the plans done with slightly more. There's some urges today, but not anything that I couldn't handle.
     
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  19. AllenJT

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    Back to 0. I'm getting so tired of this endless cycle. It's nobody's fault but my own and I'm so disappointed in myself because of that. Back when I started this, I had hoped to get over this addiction within a few months, tops. But now, it's been over 15 months since I first decided to quit. It's ridiculous. I'm not sure if these challenges and duels are the best thing for me right now, as I feel pressured to check in when I have other things I need to be doing. Also, there's a sense of shame that comes with this, as I keep acting like I know what I'm doing when clearly I don't. I really don't know anymore. For now, I think I'll start by only posting in my journal whenever I feel the need to do so. There's no reason for me to continuously post on these challenge threads when I still haven't been able to break out of this cycle. So until I can reach about 30 days, I believe the best thing for me is to focus solely on my priorities. Until then, I wish you all the best of luck.
     
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  20. Hi guys, I've been offline for 5 days tbh but I just wanna open up...

    I'm fed up of losing, failing, not living up to expectations but no one can change that but me. I can't be stressed too much but I can't keep on losing either. It's got to be one day at a time, keeping composed and believing in my ability when situations occur. Then I can't mess up. I believe in myself and my ability. I know I will be great inshaAllah, the only person stopping me is myself. I know how many sacrifices I've made people my age wouldn't do. It's not enough for me and where I wanna be tho. I wanna be the best in everything I do, this is my life all the time even subconciously before PMO because in reality there's no better feeling than winning and knowing how hard you've worked.

    One realisation I have made is that for an addict, we all have micro addictions and bad habits other than PMO. When I broke up w my ex for months, I'd check up on her instagram to see what she's up to and I felt like I couldn't stop even though I knew it would harm me. I was and still am really addicted to instagram, so I deleted it. To snapchat, so I deleted it. To YouTube so I deleted it. But I realised that these micro addictions are just as bad as PMO in reality. For the person reading, think where their other bad habits lay and for me I realise just one thing. It's a reward for being lazy whereas we really don't need these apps and distractions in our lives if we are really chasing our goals. It really angers me even writing this knowing I know how much potential I have yet how much time I've wasted talking to girls even for things I can't have. I even messed up my A-levels over a girl tbh, that's the truth and when I make my purpose to do well is when I do well. The trouble about addiction lays in the trigger, but that trigger only lies in the trouble of not having enough self control and discipline. When I'm talking to a girl, it's my choice to make it sexual and want more even tho I can be inclined towards it.

    So what can I do and what do I plan to do? The plan has always got to be a lot better than the realistic achievements tbh. I shouldn't see a day where I haven't done as well as I could've as a failure though. I should see it as a better chance to do better tomorrow. All your errors and mistakes are forgiven and treat your day as if you will only live that one. Don't overburden or be harsh but positive. Know that you will reach your goals, and everyday you try you become a better person. Trust in yourself and your ability. Do your best to remove micro addictions, one big micro addiction I have is actually a habit of checking here unnecessarily which I need to curb and same with the news. Live by the routine of doing the necessary for the benefit and not the unnecessary which harms. This is reality for me and as far as I have came, I can go further and I will go further if I am true to this and I have you all as a support. Today is the day I focus on myself and what benefits me, stop focusing and depending on others. I need to be ruthless even though I don't want to be and let all variable factors be solved by God and my effort.

    My counter is reset and I begin today a new man inshaAllah. May Allah make me carry out my commitments to myself and the same for all of you and may he make us winners for just our efforts also. Ameen.
     

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