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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by HiddenWarrior, Apr 2, 2019.
Day 21 check in
Sorry, I was busy the last time
Thanks for support Bro, definitely needed that one!
I am planning this day to be far better, maintain my core routine and have nice day, today only working 4hrs plus having nice New Years Eve party so hoping for nice end of year!
I reached that 45th day which is like three times previous record, but had some dreams and today random thoughts related to yesterday “tiktok via youtube” session-need to continuously distract myself and definitely block youtube on that second phone.
New Duel Announcement
@ohayou615 vs @The Legend of Hope
Its 1st Place vs 8th.
Good luck to both of you.
Endurance 2022 challenge Announcement
The Endurance challenge is set to start tomorrow on the first of January 2022.
You do not need to do anything more than you currently need to do for your current duels. A check in for your current duel will also count as a check in for the endurance challenge.
The aim of the challenge is to see who can last the longest without relapsing in 2022. If you relapse, you will be eliminated and so on until one person remains, who will be crowned the endurance champion. this championship will then be defended in the normal duels. This is a last person standing challenge and will provide an extra boost of motivation to make 2022 a clean year. I have limited the participants to people who are on a 30 day streak or lower so that it is more competitive.
The rules of the challenge are 1) to be honest when you relapse by watching P intentionally or Masturbation, and 2)to check in at least once every 10 days.
The current participants are:
@bellator de Christi
@The Legend of Hope
Let me know if I have missed you out and you would like to join, or if you do not want to take part and I will remove you from the challenge But I Do recommend you take part as doesn't require much effort to participate.
@ohayou615 check in!
I'm sorry to tell you, but this is a bad rule. I know you are the founder and your vision of what this challenge should be is important. We are here to improve ourselves, but what that means can be different for each one of us. Your view on marriage, being a leader, ecc. has nothing to do with anyone else here. If I have a 10 years relationship and a family without being legally married, I can't have sex with my partner? Really?
Having a contract law is NOT a proof of integrity. This is just your very personal opinion, based on nothing factual. You are not helping people to be the best leaders they can be, but to be the best leaders you think thay can be.
I don't want to create negativity or conflict, but I raise this points because I care; I have found this challenge useful in improving myself, so it was bad to read about such an unfair rule. I hope you can change your mind.
Btw, I am in for a new duel, and for the endurance challenge for 2022.
The no O rule should be for everybody or for nobody. I won't accept that some are more equal than others. How should very young people like 18-25 participate in this if they have to be on monk mode but those who are married can don't have to deal with the same struggle because "they made it already". An addiction won't make a difference between us. Neither should we. I didn't take all the time to reply properly so this is just a quick reply
Whoa wait a minute…
it is good to discuss various ideas but IMO monk mode makes sense from NoFap perspective only if it is for “short period” of time (throwing number-lets say max 3months) and mostly for heaviest cases of addiction-especially some hardcore fetishes. Other than that it kinda sabotages rewiring process, in other words based on my understanding (could be wrong):
1)maintaining week/month+ streak will be multiple times more difficult-that creates risk of more failures and giving up in long term
2)if you not rewire to real women (relationships and socializing are good, still could be not enough) then you are either left to fight endless battles or entirely switch off libido (doesn’t sound easy and can backfire)
3)Based on ppl experience I read to proceed with decent success one would need to highly limit any interactions with opposite sex-which can make finding wife even harder challenge (assuming that one is not planning to change decision when there will be fiancé or something)
It would be doable if we had like mission i.e. extremely religious ppl for whom rules require to “stay pure” but:
-we are all PMO addicts-meaning our libido and temptations are probably higher than monk candidates
-we live in society surrounded by P and we certainly dug into that way too much
My friend, you assume more than you should.
I don't think we can just put that perspective and judgment on everyone here in the duels.
You bring up interesting points. Nevertheless I stand to my point. Orgasm with a partner should be allowed. It's our responsibility to fight the addiction and free ourselves. If this is not acceptable than I'm gonna leave and everybody who gets/has a partner whom they are jot married to should do the same. I feel disappointed
Just to clarify, in terms of the rankings, you will only lose your battle for veiwing porn intentionally or masturbating. Orgasm is allowed and you won't get a loss on your record for this. @JeanCarl88 @The Legend of Hope @devsMind
@Toni7 I am taking break from this site. It has been a great pleasure participating in a duel with you. Wishing you a happy new year. Hope you get a strong opponent and reach your NoFap goal. All the best!
Let's do this!
@skull67 you've been online but haven't responded. do you want to battle or not?
Good. I don't care about more than kicking ass and getting my former rank back
Thanks for the challenge.
Checking it for this while waiting for a new opponent.
Happy new year everyone
Checking in. Still strong!
Strenght & Honor