THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN FOR ALL

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by HiddenWarrior, Apr 2, 2019.

Have you beaten your record or improved your average noPMO since joining this?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. check in wednesday!
    lets make the longest battle of our lifes :)
     
  2. @Saiyan123 I would like to join if possible. I'm up for a challenge with anybody.
     
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  3. MONSTER MONK

    MONSTER MONK Fapstronaut

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    Nothing wrong with appreciating if someone has taken the time to read your updates and left so many likes.
     
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  4. Nope I was just saying that I struggle with these qualities being a woman and I am learning to be open and receptive. It's not easy for me to be vulnerable so maybe these are my first baby steps to this direction. Recently there was a big discussion in one online forum about masculinity and femininity and what makes a woman feminine and likewise a man - masculine. The final comments there that it is all very individual as there are women who are go-getters and making careers and understanding everything about technologies and there are men of these women who like to take care of the kids and of the house. It all depends on a person. I think the pressure on both genders is a bit too much these days.
     
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  5. rinzler 2.0

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    Oh, okay. Sorry for misunderstanding that.

    And, hey @control your life , your quote on the signature of your's is top-notch !
     
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  6. Do you eat those likes? The bad thing is they up your ego, dependence, your want for more. Fuck who likes. Be sure when say thank you, you mean it. It is fully important. Not some deadbeat shit like will you like me nor or not. I do not care you like me or not. That is the only way to uplift your monkish style. Believe that.
     
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  7. Cognitive superiority. Brain power. That makes a men, a beast. I am sure that is the only universal truth about masculinity. No need to be big, or aggressive. Just cognitive superiority, power of thought, of phycological strength, reason, logic, discipline, endurance. Everything else is beta. Like being a bad guy too, no matter how macho you are. It ain't about that guys. It is about being cognitive master of your own empire.
     
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  8. Yes you nailed it. I sense this in alphas around me and there's none of that in fap guys. It's hard to explain and you need to be a woman to sense this. I also discern when betas try to act like alphas :) I think it's inner vibration or smth.
     
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  9. rinzler 2.0

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    Okay, from next time around, I am doing all that (Thanking for the likes), just when I mean it, and not just for the formality or not to drink the kool-aid.
     
  10. rinzler 2.0

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    Alright, @DekuHope and @Saiyan123 . I am up, I relapsed. I will change the counter later. Anyways, it was going well when it happened suddenly.
     
  11. You nailed your avatar. Such a beauty, you know what exactly I mean.
    forget about that. That probably is something the girls here do. Why you need likes at all... Once they liked you they send you their thank you. When somebody says thank you to you, you ain't reply thank you. I actually do, but when there is mutual help between close personas. Whatever. You got the idea.
     
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  12. MONSTER MONK

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    No more likes for you then Mr :/
    It's a just a way to interact with the community, not a big deal.
     
  13. Thank you, I appreciate your compliment because I know you really mean it :)
    I don't do this regularly, in fact, I only recently found out that people here write thank yous on profiles for the likes they've got. Sometimes I don't have time for that. I mean, it's nice and everything, but I need to engage in meaningful communication (read "change the world into a better place" :D) and my time is limited so.. I thought that maybe there could be a kind of another status line where I could thank all the people who like my comments :D
    Hey Monk, all your focus should be on your duel partner, leave the Beast for me :D Testosterone is rising again in this thread! :D
     
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  14. That was all I was talking about all the time.
     
  15. AllenJT

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    I feel like cognitive superiority might not be the only "alpha" quality. Honestly, what I think of when I think of a man worthy of respect, is someone who; is humble, yet knows how to take a compliment, protects those he cares about, is always open to criticism, is constantly striving to improve himself (in mind, body, and spirit), values honesty, and is never quick to criticize others. It's not about "acting" masculine, it's about being a role-model and doing your part. Just my thoughts.
     
  16. The Beast has risen from the flames of his hell. I would ask politely if somebody here would engage in a fight to the death. Though it is not fair. Cause I already died. If they too scared, arrange something, muslim brother.
     
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  17. @Topes but at least for me there is a distinction between alpha and macho. Macho is overtly acting in a masculine way IMO. It's similar to false feminine (princess archetype) I think who is overtly feminine but still fake. Speaking of relationships between men and women, masculine is rock, feminine is waves crushing against the rock. Take mountain river for example in all its untamed energy and its coasts made of mountain rock on both sides, that is a perfect illustration of masculine and feminine. And I don't see macho in this equation. Alpha encompasses more things including those you mentioned. Maybe we understand these concepts differently.
     
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  19. MONSTER MONK

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    Hmmm how about I settle the score with you. Hardmode till death . Our own very personal duel, same wager
     
  20. AllenJT

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    @fleurette Of course, I agree with what you said about the difference between macho and alpha. Honestly, I'm not a huge fan of either term, they seem too.. inflated maybe? I can't really think of the right word. Anyways, you're right about how there's a difference between "acting" masculine and being that rock. I feel that the biggest flaw in many of today's "men" (and no, I'm not excluding myself from them, I don't have the right to do so) is that it's seen as "good enough" to simply act how a man should act. That is, putting on the facade, but still being a boy underneath the mask. That's why we can see males dying of old age who were still boys, and yet there is that possibility of becoming a man before you become one legally. To sort of veer off of the train of thought here, I feel like this is related to your definition of the false feminine archetype. What I've seen in my (only) one year at college so far, is that the vast majority of girls are simply filling their roles as females. From my personal experience (obviously this means I'm somewhat biased), finding a woman who is real, independent (yes, that is a desirable quality), and not simply wearing a mask (this can be literal and metaphorical if you know what I mean) is incredibly rare. Some girls pretend that they are superior to everyone else, and some pretend that they are doing much better than they really are. That's part of the reason why I've held off on pursuing a relationship for so long, especially since seeking one out will only get you into a mess. If i found a girl that I could get along with before ever considering a relationship of any kind.. then maybe. But until then, I'll be looking for the real ones.
     

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