THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN FOR ALL

Even the good leaders make poor decisions, its the best leaders take responsibility for them.

 

I don't know brother. From the past week, I suddenly feel a lot horny, so much more than I've ever felt; and eventually I open a new tab and start watching stuff. I just feel like not having control over myself. I feel like losing my virginity, and right now, I am thinking like, it doesn't matter whom I do it with ! [ I know it sounds crazy, but, I can't stop thinking that way ] I don't know how I landed up in this situation, but, this is so much worse. Earlier, I used to feel bad after every relapse, and knew I had to stop it. Now, I don't feel that bad, and I even feel like wanting more. Maybe, I am having a lot of hormones secreted now ? Should that be a reason for the hike in my sexual tension ? I feel like wanting more now; instead of wanting to stop this, as I used to before.

Well, that is something brother. I think I am not doing anything at all to stop myself from doing this [ Although I try to avoid triggers by taking precautionary steps, but, like you said, We must reach the point of not being intrigued by our Triggers to be successful ]. Could you, ( not just brother beast, but whomever can) share with me, what you do to avoid a reset ?

I am a shy guy, and people ask me why I look frightened when they see me, but, I am not frightened by anything when they ask me about it. People also categorize me among the very good boys. Like for instance, all of my friends parents (especially mothers) , think I am the most obedient and disciplined boy among my peers ( I am still disciplined though ! ). I feel nervous to start a conversation with a stranger. I even feel a little more nervous than a normal person when I have to strike a conversation with someone whom I have seen around, but, not yet talked to. How do you make yourself feel at ease under such circumstances ?

I don't get what you're saying. Expressing myself in what kind of fashion ? Sorry, if I am being annoying.

No, you didn't. Don't be formal with me brother, there's no need for that !

 

When I decide not to. It is res judicata.

Practise make permanent. Not perfect, permanent. I good basketball shooter, shoots 2 000 made shots a day, for example. Muscle memory. Same as speaking. If you speak with 10 people everyday, soon you will start speaking with everybody. When you pick up basketball for a first time, it is heavy, like 500 grams. You do not how to shoot. But if you start, you develop a shot. It is inevitable.

Just let others recognise you. You have to develop some kind of skill. Some kind of hobby. Some kind of colour to your life, that can SEPARATE you. That would make you colourful, shining.

I just do not want to sound harsh. I struggle with sex too. I am horny all the time. Good I am over PMO, but still. I am an addict in this way. Lately I am putting in a lot of effort. Still I work like crazy for nothing, but I expect that big things will pop. If I got to be 100, I am disappointed how often you fail. Get your game gear on. Ball!

 

You even wrote something related in an earlier post about Subliminal Advertising. Is it related to that brother ?

You found out any solution to your problem @Topes ?

 

I am interested brother...

 

Read some Reboot strategies and articles Boy. Your brain is craving for pleasure. Be a warrior and fight your urges.

 

Hi @Saiyan123
I’m ready to join this challenge. Set me up a worthy opponent. Ikuzo!

 

Back to day 0, so sad

 

@Turtleboi 3 day check in, doing good so far. Even after just a few days I start to feel much better than I did before.

 

@Saiyan123 my brother... Thank u for everything in here... For this participation and your feelings and your kindness. But still... What you say about Christianity and Christ is what Muslims think about us. We do not believe in Pope like u said and about the words of jesus... Well in the bible jesus said that is the son of God, that He is the Truth and the Path and the Life... Etc etc... This is the reason that Jews kill him in the cross... Cause told for himself that is the Messiah, is the Son of God... This conversation could be endless... U say something, i say something else... But here it isn't i think the place to make this conversation... I didn't say anything about Allah, neither our theories, what Christianity believe about Mohammed... So please... I don't wanna be in such a dialogue! I respect u and your believes, so dont explain us (and me also, cause i m also here), who is Jesus, and where we believe us christians. In an other case i have to leave... here is your competition, so i am the one that has to leave... With all the respect and love...

 

I don't think there would be a need for that brother.

 

Stay. Here it is not a massacre. That is why I believe in God. No Jesus, No Mohammed, No Buddha, etc etc. Keep the good tone and respect each other.