THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN FOR NEW FIGHTERS!

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by primordial-saiyan, Apr 2, 2019.

Have you beaten your record or improved your average noPMO since joining this?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

    36 vote(s)
    23.7%
  1. cr7da8055

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    Hey @CoolBuddy7, I understand what you’re going through. The feeling is difficult to control, but it is through experience that we become better at coping with it, and I hope this experience has made you stronger! Good luck!
    Peace!
     
  2. Helau

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    That sounds neither useful nor pleasant.
     
  3. CoolBuddy7

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    Okay brother. I knew I was doing something unproductive, but, I didn't care much. I don't watch TV, and I don't surf the web as much as I used to, in fact I don't surf at all on most days, and I just downloaded it again today ( after some days ) thinking that was okay to do. I am not listening to any music, I don't go out to watch any movies in any theater. In fact, I can tell you that I have been to the theater only like 4 times in my life, and 3 of those times were with my father as a child, and I don't even remember the name of those movies. I still used to watch movies on my TV, and stopped it from last year. From Two months before, I stopped watching live Football matches, and only watch the highlights some time later, and now, I am cutting up on that too. So, I am just trying to stay away from everything, and try to start learning, but, I hope I am still on Holiday mode ( Which is something not there for me apparently ! ). I will start working from tomorrow. I started earlier last week to only pause a little later. I will resume doing that. Thanks for helping me out brother @Helau . :)

    Thanks, I will learn from this experience. ( I will try to. I am always talking, but, I regret not taking much action on what I say. I have to change my character, and behavior towards life. I [as everyone else] have limited time on this earth. So, I better do something fruitful out of this. ) I will try again better the next time though. Thanks for the reply. :)
     
  4. Mr Hardtimetostopwatchingporn

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  5. CoolBuddy7

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    The thread is closed for now, but, maybe brother @Saiyan123 would add you next week after his exams are over.
     
  6. aravindu

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    @aries4nk We are fighters mate...hope you are ready for it! Try to get closer to me now! I'm on 9 day streak now. Let's fight and get this shot out of our life forever...I'm ready for this...are you??
     
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  7. MONSTER MONK

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  8. MONSTER MONK

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    "Man is born free but everywhere he is in chains "
    This is just the reality of the World. Everyone is a slave to something.
    But when man recognises only God as his Lord and not the world as his Lord, then only does he gain true freedom.
    Become a free slave
     
  9. Alex_Al

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    Our Lord Jesus said: i m not calling you slaves cause slave doesn't know what his lord do, i pronounce you my friends cause you were with me all this time!
    Cause He has give his life for us... And this is true love, to give your life! :) So we are slaves ... slaves to Love! ;-)
    (Cause for us Jesus is Love)
     
  10. llortaton

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    Oh, I know that! I love Tekken. I used to play it years back, with my friends! My favorite character is the bear guy... I forgot his name.
     
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  11. llortaton

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    Same bro! :(
    I normally get 4 or 5 days....
     
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  12. WolfHound 獣

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    Seeing my brothers relapse drives me berserk.
     
  13. CoolBuddy7

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    Okay brother. It's been a sweet journey so far. I was not being serious all the way till here. I think, that is the ultimate mistake I've been doing so far. Still acting and behaving like a child, is not going to get me anywhere. So, I've got to grow up. I think I try to act this way to cover up, all of that sorrowfulness and sadness that I experience. I am indeed spending too much time on this forum, and still, I go on to reset my counter, which is terrible. So, I have to stop being here all the while, and instead come here whenever I can, and do something productive for the rest of the day, as @Helau said. I don't know, I think, I have pretty much been this playful guy, for all my life till now. I should try out things on my own, and figure them out doing so, instead of being this horrendous guy, who keeps on pestering other's again and again for help, while they themselves have a lot of work to do. I am sorry for all the trouble I have caused. I am so sorry, and also feel guilty for making everyone who believed in me, lose by resetting my counter. I will think about everything that I've done, and decide what I should be doing to improve myself. I will start putting in efforts. I will change for the better, and stop disappointing everyone who have hopes on me.
     
  14. bluedragon9

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    Look into my eyes.. Tsukuyomi !!!
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  15. bluedragon9

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    We will make it. Before I was an addict of sleeping every day after PMO, It's still better than that.
     
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  16. bluedragon9

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    @CoolBuddy7 @Saiyan123 and every brother and sister in the forum, Our exams are near. There's something I would like to share, I only use it when exams are near. Not recommended every time. Well, in which time of day your urge is at its peak? This is what I use as a last resort if everything fails. I use this only when exams are near.

    1) Install the app name "Offtime" (Free version from play store or pro version from outside you can ask me for the link or buy it)

    2) Configure the app
    I.e it's an android application which forces a distraction-free environment. How does it work? Well Once you turned this app on, you will only able to use apps that are kept in the whitelist and basic feature like phone and SMS will work,

    3) Put all important apps like PDF reader, video player, WhatsApp, Books, E-mail etc in the whitelist. Don't add any browser or anything which can lead you to PMO. Don't add phone setting too or you will end up uninstalling it, give the app all permission and make it device administrator from the setting (For hard to uninstall)

    4) Set the action for a manual stop to "wait", i.e. you need to wait till the specified time to use your apps, manual stop not possible

    5) You can turn on manually too but auto turning on from schedule will be best. Set the schedule when you feel the high urge. For example, if I set it from 9 AM to 4 PM, Your phone will become a mere classic phone which can only take phone calls and other basic apps like email and WhatsApp and pdf reader etc.

    Q) Now, what if you use PC/Laptop?
    -There's a software called COLD TURKEY for pc whose concept is exactly similar to Offtime. It's a paid app but the patch will be easily found outside.

    Q) What if your offtime is on, and you need to use the browser for some productive cause like finding a topic for the exam?
    - There's an android app named "Safe browser" by kiddoware. Put only this browser to whitelist, No matter what this browser only loads PMO free websites. I use it for googling something if my offtime is on.

    During my last exams, I set the schedule as 6 AM to 5 AM from MON to SAT, i.e It was impossible for me to use my phone for PMO. It was only available on SUN.
    My exams are starting in 10 days, Best of luck to everyone.
     
  17. CoolBuddy7

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    Thank you for the recommendations brother @bluedragon9 . I will use them all.
     
  18. bluedragon9

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  19. aries4nk

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    @aravindu i'm on Day 1 friend but you are already ahead of me.
     
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