THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN FOR ALL

Stumbled recently mate. I'm out of the duel unfortunatly

 

You've only let yourself down my friend. We may seem to be all in this together but each has his own journey far apart on the physical plane. Noone can feel the pain guilt or loss that you feel. When you have an O that is your personal experience, nobody but you can feel it. So I offer my virtual hand to help you help yourself and say don't give up my brother we have all fallen before it is not how many times you fall but rather how many times you pick yourself back up and continue moving that matters.

 

Thanks again brother, @Hickorydoo . Good to have you back. You Must have been busy, huh ?

Oh, it's just that I went binging after a reset, and I kind of realized what I was doing wrong all this time by then.

That's what I am trying to do now brother. Thank you for the consistent help though !

That's so cool. Thanks bruh.

Awesome quote. Thank you so much for the help. God bless, and good luck to you brother.

 

So what precautions are you going to take?

 

check in day 3 i couldnt come yesterday because a power cut, everyday it happen i don't have electricity for like 6-7 hours so if i cant check in its because that well I'm controlling my urges but don't do anything the whole day it doesn't help I'll try to find out something which I could spend time

 

Brother, I am going to try to stay off the internet as much as I can, and I am learning now though (Not fully fledged, but still, learning !), I am going to watch an episode of Ben 10 (or) ATLA every time I feel bored. At night before going to bed, I will be watching Nat Geo for some time. If at all I get any urges, I will go near my grandparents, along with whom I am living right now, and be with them, trying to help them with their daily stuff, like helping my granny with her cooking, or massaging my grandpa or something like that. I am also planning on reading a book I had bought earlier this year. All of these practices such as Watching an episode of Cartoon ( I am limiting myself to 3 episodes to the max everyday, and I am limiting myself to watch an hour of football related videos or read football related articles for the same period of time) are temporary and I will stop them too soon enough. I am thinking of learning for most parts but, I will not stop at anything to relieve myself of those urges even if it meant me not being able to learn.

Just like me. Try to do something at all, It would seemingly pay off; and try to make that 'something', productive, as brother @Helau suggested.

 

@cr7da8055 I am sorry bro I fapped last night.
I can't believe it everything was going right and I was even meditating every day .
guess I lost my cool last night. you win. sorry again I couldn't keep up

 

@Saiyan123 could you please put me in another battle.
and do I need to check in everyday

 

See. When put effort and rely on Allah. Things are coming.

Now he is busy. When he got the time.

 

So here it is, the struggle is real. I am getting more options available from women. And... I know I have so much potential.. like having enormous amount of options. So here is the point. I used fapping to porn a while ago to stay away from women. Now I took my remarks and understood women in general think only about themselves(to be fair it is people who do, men too) so basically I am standing strong now, but there will come time to choose between fapping and sleeping with different women. I approach really easy now and I got 2-3 women ready. But... I do not want nobodies shit. Thank you for listening to this, it may sound funny to you, but that actually summarise my struggle. And the point of these is to reassure myself fapping is bad. Sleeping with different human beings too, but it seems I got no choice. I got ''a one'' 3 times in my life. And the last ''one'' was ''the one''. Guess what. It wasn't .

 

Not necessarily, you can check in once a week.

 

So I am not that type of guy. But... you know.

 

Sorry for late reply hommie, been trying to focus on myself lately. I’m doing great bro, as long as everyday is better than the last your on the right path!

How is you doinggg?

 

How’s the sleeping going? What I realized don’t be so hard on yourself about everything but instead be productive for the time you are up.

 

Temptations my brother!!!

 

@aries4nk that's fine mate... let's start this fight...I really hope your urge to beat me would keep you in the fight and my urge to not loss against you will keep my journey alive...and if you feel any difficulty feel free to message me too. I can be your accountability partner too.

 

I am not tempt . I need it. Imma do it. That is the way God gave me. I wanted to be loyal all the time, and they start playin.(EVERY SINGLE TIME) Nope, my life ain't no game, brother.

 

Yeah, yeah, We all know brother..

That sounds great brother. Glad to know that !