THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN FOR ALL

Just concentrate on something else brother. Instead of trying to quit this, try to do anything else. Don't think that you're trying to stay away from this. Do something else, and If you experience any triggers along the way, it's up to you to decide. You started this journey for a reason, so, ask yourself if you have completed that objective. Remember this brother, (Well, actually, someone at NoFap posted this, So, I am not behind this):
If you can beat this addiction, at your lowest, then you've already won !
24 Days is a reputable amount of days, you possibly won't get back these 24 Days if you feel lost now. No matter what, you won't get this streak back, you may start a new streak though (Wishing such a thing does not turn out to happen), So, just think about it for a minute, and then, Let it go... Do something else. Stop thinking about this...
CHEERS,

 

One of the reasons I relapse today, was big time curiosity. I think we are taking this too serious. Give him great importance. I told myself. What if I break that so called benefits? I went to the store, looking people in the eye. Being cheerful. Being great. It is in our heads more than anything. Those panic attacks are so common. I do not feel they are all porn induced. I believe it is in the general way of life. Of thoughts, Of conditions. Of all.

 

For those who feel manipulated by girls - you could really be victims of narcissists and believe me they are even able to imitate love and other human emotions if that's the way to use you to boost their self esteem. You can look on www.narcsite.com (run by a narc himself) or on youtube (Thrive after abuse channel - 53 red flags of a narc playlist) for future reference.

 

Yeah. NoFap is a great place, this is where people are speaking out the truth about High Speed Internet Pornography and Masturbation. Atleast, people are ready to speak out. The other day; I don't exactly remember where, I think it was on reddit, but, there was this person, Who was like :

"Hey people. I just figured out that there is an online forum that tell's others not to Masturbate, or Watch Porn. Although the latter, might maybe, be considerable. Anyway's I went in, and signed up into the forum. There were these Weirdo's saying that they're experiencing Super-power's after doing What they probably call "Hard-Mode". I can't tell you how ridiculous it sounded, and I couldn't control my laughter. This "Hard-mode" is a practice of not masturbating, not watching Porn, or not even undergoing Orgasm, and they say, they are experiencing Erectile Dysfunctions which they think can be cured from going through their Hard-Mode. Anyways, I just came off from there to post it here. I can't tell you how ridiculous it sounds.".

I am not on Reddit, but I was just going through the Sub-Reddit of NoFap, and there came this thread. I told myself, that this guy will soon turn up here, to experience the truth, the truth he thinks is ridiculous, the truth no-one else are offering to tell him to.

I am so happy to be a part of this forum, and especially, I feel so lucky to have such brothers and sister like you people. Hope, we all come out of this together !

 

This shit is killing me time and again.

 

Yes - they love bomb you first - then gaslight you making you doubt your own self worth and your reality - then manipulate and discard you - and if you still have feelings for them they might use you as a secondary source of their fuel in the future. So no contact is best in this case - or grey rock technique if you must use low contact as in coparenting etc. You should communicate in writing wherever possible though to minimise the probability of them manipulating you. Hope that helps somebody.

 

Maybe it's due to a lesser storage space available, because the Founder of NoFap says that the Forum is currently at debt. So, I guess they use some variables to count likes for each person, and then that there is a max-limit to this variable so as to simplify calculations, because there would be around 22,000 people in here, and if they have to perform calculations for that many people, then they might need even larger memory space, which means, more cost. ( IDK, just trying to understand something )

So, I guess I have to stop liking everything I see , or atleast wait for another 12 hours to like the posts..

 

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Yeah @Saiyan123 narcs don't care - they "feed" on both positive and negative emotions and they arrange people around themselves as main and secondary sources - depends on the level of a narc. That narc site explains everything in detail. I learned there that high-level type of narcs are able to imitate empathy and control their emotions for some time when confronted about the shit they've done.
Anyways, let's wait for that robot to check-in!!