THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by primordial-saiyan, Apr 2, 2019.

Have you beaten your record or improved your average noPMO since joining this?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. Leader of ME

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    New prospective - My last resets I felt nothing bad and I was wondering why. I think it is because I was not hard on myself, but appreciate my work the way it was. 1 day, it is OK, 20 it is OK 100 OK, 5 OK. It depends on you. Frustration comes from being hard on ourselves . I believe peace of mind can work wonders against PMO, depression and more. Stay on the positive, mean it. Let's see. Let us live the way we want. You can go down 7 times and get up 8, if you do you OK, but if you can get up with a smile, coming from inside, then you are the winner. That's kind of what I believe right now. Be brutal to your goals, but be calm to yourself. C'mon . : )
     
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  2. fg4795

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  3. @ohayou615 . I don't remember who had the prostatitis advice but could you share it please? :)
     
  4. Yeah replied. Sorry its late.

    Lost count of days but today was a harder day stress was getting to me but I got through it bi'ithnillah. Got to remember, one day at a time, plan it and execute to the best of my ability. This is how to win this battle. I worked harder today but I can do more inshaAllah.
    Thank you.
     
  5. ohayou615

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    I believe it was @Timmyrogger (Post 6131)
     
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  6. Paf-On

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    Check in...
    How are you doing Brother?
    It's been hard day to me lately...
    Hope you're doing fine...
     
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  7. Timmyrogger

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    Day 45 check in @ohayou615
    @Saiyan123 l am the man struggling to manage prostatitis .
    So far i am doing good its a slow progress for me but now i am exploring new ways to cope.
    I do pelvic stretching two times a day also joined gym and exercising regularly plus nofap .. and the most impotant try to be calm and relax because depression anxiety and stress make it worse .. medicines and herbal supplement are useful only in short term in my experience .. i do use multivitamin centrum one tablet every two days ...
     
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  8. Turtleboi

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    Okay, I slipped a little yesterday with my plans, nearly didn't finish my tasks(In a way, I did. I had to postpone a task). Seeing signs of that today, will attempt to avert it.
     
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  9. Kratos_GOW

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    I am doing great man TFA. Check in 9th jan. Its gonna be okay man. Its hard but its worth it.
     
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  10. Leader of ME

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    I reset again, first time by boredom . My stress level are outrageously high. So I just trynna calm down, but I know this is not the way.

    Time to do it right with the support of all of you.
     
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  11. Don't worry about it. Just keep fighting and learn from it to not make the same mistake twice. You got this.

    Thank you so much for this! I don't have it personally but my brother does and I'll tell him my friend gave this advice as he had it before. A lot of thanks to you :)
     
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  12. I know I haven't put you in a duel for a while. I want you to reach a week before I put you in another one because I want you to level up. Most I've asked of someone but I see great potential in you if you put the work in.
     
  13. FUTURE PLANS

    You may call me crazy but I have a big plan for the future:

    My plan is to make or be a manager of a system. In this system, if we need medical advice, we know a doctor and in turn the doctor gets more business. Same with Engineer, lawyer, programmer. Even general advise on prostatitis like @Timmyrogger gave, this is an example of how the system benefits so we all do too.

    What we specialise in, for example @bluedragon9, @Turtleboi, in programming, is what we seek help for and also just for the sake of learning and being better. Same with @WolfHound 獣 , with Law. We all have our niches and we should have brotherhood and help within the system first. If you need any advice ask, if you have advice to give, give it. Once this system is really set up in a good way, what we can do is charity, but I mean real charity to solve societal problems. For example homelessness and general poverty, if anyone is struggling he can ask the system and he's in interest free debt to it. And we work with him so he can work to pay off the debt to the system and better his ownself.

    We have the foundations of the system I imagine in the future here, obviously with no circular flow of income. But I invite every single person to do their best to make it a reality here. Show what you specialise in and the advise you can give. To wade strong currents, we link arms as brothers instead of trying to fight it ourself and drowing. This is what we forget in society and this is what you need to remember here. Your role can't be solely individual, like current society promotes but it's for the future and to do good and forbid evil. Maybe then we will stop complaining and actually make a significant change. So rise and fight today, knowing you have a brother here in me always.
     
    Last edited: Jan 9, 2020
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  14. theman1

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    Awesome.
    I'd say I can be of help in programming as well.
     
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  15. Turtleboi

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    Thanks for the trust you put in me. I'll try and escape the broader relapse cycle this week, or die trying. The slipping is halfway averted by now, just need to finish my planned Photoshopping and the I'll not be behind schedule. Kinda in dangerous territory now(Fell last week because I got behind schedule, kinda keen to not repeat that), have to stay vigilant and make some sacrifices
     
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  16. Prove what you can do. I will try even harder seeing you trying harder.
    Appreciate knowing this, what languages do you know? I had a python module and I should've just sent my work into here haha :)


    @bluedragon9 . Day of learning. Always got to evolve strategy and thinking otherwise you get too comfortable. Today I finally realised, as much as I do for others and have good expectations of others, be realistic. Always optimistic but patience in times of testing. Gratitude for health, intellect, food, physicality, good siblings, close connection with my mum. Gratitude for the system Allah made so even the trees release what we breathe, for sleep, for daylight, for water, for rain, for good temperature. For good friends, for good provisions. However much I am grateful for, I will always be ungrateful. I have to show my gratitude in my example to do better, even when I put myself in trouble. InshaAllah. Deep thoughts but appreciating life and thankful completely to Allah.
     
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  17. Turtleboi

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    Okay, I may had slept late last night and postponed yet another task, but damn I felt content. The Photoshopping may had taken way longer than expected(half a day), but it's something I wanted done for months and seeing it finally done is just so satisfying. However, a few more of these satisfying moments in my week and it would be very fucked.
     
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  18. theman1

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    C++ and C#.
    I've heard python is cool though.
     
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  19. fg4795

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  20. theman1

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    Is anybody here into web development? :D
     

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