Thank you for challenging me on this. I don't truly believe this, but I do sometimes have to remind myself of that fact! To explain why I wrote it: there are times when I'm focussing on my struggles so much, and she is being so awesome about them, that I feel like my struggles aren't worthy of such an amazing response. But I also know that I can be amazing at dealing with her struggles, and that she really values me in exactly the same way, and during those times she also feels that she doesn't deserve me. So it's clearly ridiculous to say that we don't deserve each other - we do! I'm grateful for Pradeep. Thank you Pradeep. Again, I'm grateful for this forum. I've learned, time and time again, that I have to be very careful where I look because there is a lot of darkness and ignorance here. But there are also some truly exceptional human beings here, and together we are going to overcome this. And the forum has enabled that to happen. I'm grateful for how many people have started taking part in this thread! It's really good to read all your gratitude.