The Harry Potter Challenge

HOGWARTS STUDENT - YEAR THREE - RAVENCLAW - Day 22

Guessing that it’s finally time for that butterbeer!

Hoping that more students will soon join as it will be possible to say “Cheers”!

 

Don’t worry Bro-you will make it!
Remember not to think much about how many weeks is needed to something-just focus on current day: One day at a time!

 

Forgot to update last night. Onto Hogwarts Student Year 3 (Gryffindor). Day 21 done.

Brilliant changes @Don'tLookBack Far better than I ever could've imagined!

 

Yeah it's always the way. I always make excuses that it's not porn, but I quickly get bored and then spend the next couple of hours trying to find something more exciting. Before you know it you've relapsed and your back at the start. Despite how many times this is happened, I know its 100% possible to quit this. Let's do this!

 

Muggle, day 4. Planning to spend Christmas at Hogwarts!

 

Yeah Bro I’ve been there, done that.

Recommending doing social media detox (in my case limit max 5min/day so that I only quickly respond to critical things) plus no youtube - not only you will no longer risk triggers, free all that time but in critical cases i.e. yesterday I needed some instructional videos to fix car-only place was youtube-so I’ve just borrowed phone from wife. Such emergencies appear like once per two weeks so doesn’t feel lack of youtube as source of knowledge. It’s PITA but when it comes to triggers IMO one either needs to go extreme or try to fight it (which is like increasing difficulty level two times). Wishing all good luck!

 

Day check:
On a few hours i will past the first day , one step at the time.

 

Yesterday was haaard, I thought about it all day, finding a looot of excuses on why I could PMO. But what got me through these excuses and urges is : yes, you could do it, it would feel really good BUT that means right here you have a choice to make, forget about the reason you think you should PMO, the choice is "either I give up, or I simply go about my day and not indulge."

I know there are some threads here I need to avoid for now because it's a trigger, even the word "f*ck" is, so I'll have to stay strong.

Yes you will And so will I!

 

Day 22 completed

 

It’s not like I am proud of that but also not ashamed-TBH I am checking out nearly all nice chicks which happen to get close to me
I think it’s part of nature, especially in those moments of higher libido-I would not beat myself over that one and maybe even argue that it is a trait of your masculinity-I even noticed doing it more often when on longer streak.

I would advise not to worry and even appreciate it (as you don’t aspire to be asexual or something). Fight is not about not seeing real women but about removing artificial stimulation-that in long run can lead you only to:
1)becoming sage monk, hermit who does stuff like semen retention 500+
2)rewiring from PM to sex with real woman

Sometimes it is better to focus on core issue (any form of P and things which trigger M) then go full asexual berserk mode-note that I am assuming here that viewing real women does not indicate immediate M-especially in public places