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The hell of Anorgasmia

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by max26, Sep 6, 2019.

  1. max26

    max26 Fapstronaut

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    Hi people, id love to get some support , some tips and informations on the (inability to orgasm during partnered sex) im living with. Id like to hear people that overcame the problem or idk.

    I quit porn last week because im tired of this anorgasmia and i wanna orgasm when i make sex with my lover but i just cant... sometimes i can feel im on the edge but it justs dosent wanna orgasm... its frustrating a lot.

    Makes me wanna go back to porn and satisfy myself but i know porn may be a big problem in my life since i can spend 3 hours watching it and masturbating ( i like to masturbate and keep me on the edge for as long as possible ) i just watched the video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u4j2d7iLWsw

    and its so true , porn is like a drug but free , unlimited and you can make the feeling last very long like i used to do...

    I wanna hear your opinions on anorgasmia and how long do i have to wait to recover from a Porn addiction ... will i eventually fucken orgasm doing sex ... or should i stick with porn and live with the fact that i cant orgasm when doing sex with some1 ... fuk this is depressing me so much...
     
  2. Lenard Fosterman

    Lenard Fosterman Fapstronaut

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    Have you ever simulated intercourse all by yourself (using a sex toy for example)? Would you manage to O that way?
     
  3. max26

    max26 Fapstronaut

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    yeah i have no problem with masturbating with sex toy either,

    Im actually trying to quit porn for 21 days then ill see, if no improvement then fuck it ill go back to my drug xD
     
  4. max26

    max26 Fapstronaut

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    Ok update for people that are interested, I finally came tonight after 7 days of no porn no orgasm no masturbation. Did sex every day during these 7 days. So theres hope i guess !
     
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  5. ultrafabber

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    I had anorgasmia for over a decade and didn't even notice it. I would ejaculate during sex but would not feel any pleasure on ejaculation or during intercourse. I guess i just got used to it. I could have orgasms when masturbating when i was 20 something but over time the orgasms got less and less intense to a point where it just felt like sneezing.

    I even had anorgasmia if i had a wet dream, however, sometimes, i would feel pleasure.

    I guess it takes a longer time to heal especially since i did a very stupid thing, like you, to edge for hours.
     
  6. max26

    max26 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah edging for hours is stupid when it comes to recover from this shit... I used to edge a lot... this feeelss so good but when it comes to real life sex it def strike back into my face.... im just at 11 days and just thinking about porn make me wanna go give it a look its so hard this addiction is one of the hardest to quit fuk it. good thing im motivated or i would not be able to win. .. . .

    (update i orgasmed once again the 9th day)

    HOPE IS BACK!

    now im delaying sex session for once every 2 days i feel like it i dont know why xD maybe cuz i came the 7th day and the 9th day but didnt do sex the 8th day... and 2 days is not thaaaat long to be honest it feels even better i think :) its like a mini break :p
     
  7. max26

    max26 Fapstronaut

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    well fuck ive failed to PMO :( ive lasted 2 weeks and began having dark thoughts... i had to make me feel good. I dont say dark thoughts are caused by the fact that i was not using Porn but im highly depressed and it probably didnt help my depression having this dopamine buff every day.
    today my objective was about not watching porn and if i dont go sleep immediatly ill just fail. so bye, good night. x)

    "i try thought to not edge anymore, make the masturbation quick... so it has a lesser effect on my brain" hope its gonna work.
     
  8. phwrancesco

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    If you really want to solve this problem, first thing you have to to is quit PM for at least 90 days. One week is absolutely nothing.
     

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