I didn't aware of remojo but as you mentioned it is worth installing in my mobile and laptop. I will avail the 3 days trial and see how it goes... Thanks for sharing
Hey there! As you said when we indulge ourselves in the things we love to do then we won't think of porn and depress over a relapse that continues as a by-product. btw All the best for your public exams. Do well See you on the other side coop!
Essentially the murderer blamed his actions on his sex and porn addictions and said that the women at the spas that he killed were tempting his urges. It is a BS excuse and while PMO and sex addiction are troubling, and may be due to triggers we had no choice it, it is ultimately our decision to act on them. I used to externalize my PMO addiction saying that I had a moment of weakness and I acted as if it was somehow inevitable that I would relapse. However, now I realize that every time I make the decision to type in the search terms, or to masturbate to weird fantasies, I am choosing to do that and no one and no thing made me choose to PMO. While I understand some struggle with their addiction and want something to blame (and I am not denying the role our conditioning and types of triggers), I think that we ultimately are setting ourselves up for failure when we do not take responsibility for our actions. Also, Day 4. Best, Mathman1994
So glad you are trying it out! I think it is super helpful coz most of the other apps you can just close but this if you know your getting triggered or close you can hit panic and it locks you out for however long you may need to get your thoughts back under control all the best brother really awesome to see the progress you are making. I'm lifting you up in prayer often too
These addictions ultimately mostly affects the opposite gender both in relation and society as a whole. I'm shocked when it leads to a murder at the end. We're the first generation who have the gateway to access internet at ease anywhere, anytime we require. So we have to be responsible. If we fail to use the resource for good then next gen may dive deep worse. Congratulations on becoming Drone Catcher.
I just love the minimalistic UI in remojo which I prefer the most in any app. I'm waiting for the ios version of the app to get released, So that I can avail the trial for both my laptop and mobile. Thanks for the support and prayers. It means a lot Let's get this done buddy and find the co-ordinates.
Day 1.5 @hoping_cannon I slipped up after 6.5 days 1.5 days ago. I had been feeling dejected and struggling with my place in the world, and porn unfortunately was "there for me" as a comforter (as well as an abuser). I am back as a farmer, and ready for a new start. Not sure why I am feeling the way I am with my feelings of nihilism and dejection, but I am feeling more hopeful today after I wrote a letter to my Grandpa who died 13 years ago this month. Best, Mathman1994
When you get some fresh air, just feel, breathe and relax. Sometimes it makes things right and clears you mind to get some fresh start. My condolence on the loss of your grandpa. Stay strong!
Day 2 - Today is going better than yesterday and a lot better than the day before. I have been rather lazy today getting up at noon and then lounging around from 2-4pm while I was on call for tutoring (No clients needed my help so it was okay for me to lounge. I have 5 hours until bed, so the goal is to alternate between two different classes until I am going to bed. Best, Mathman1994
Good that you kept yourself busy by setting goals to work on those leisure time. Just 48 hrs. to catch the drone... Stay strong. We're all in this together
It's my honor to drive along with you buddy. Let's get this done and fly above the clouds. I can see the shuttle which takes us to the endurance.