THE LAST 90 Days of 2018

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  1. Beefcake

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    Boys and girls, Men and women, we have arrived at the last 90 days of the year.
    It could have started yesterday, today or tomorrow, depending on your time zone.
    If you haven't already, this is your last chance to hit 90 days by 2019.

    And so, I wanted to give this set of 90 days it's own thread.

    The rules are simple. You do not relapse. What counts as a relapse? It's up for you to decide. I've come to acknowledge that everyone is on their own journey and want to achieve different things. I don't think it's right to say someone relapsed if they orgasm during sex with their lover.

    With that said, the one absolute rule for everybody here is:
    NO PORN.
    If you fantasize , have some leniency. If you edge for 3 hours then that's a relapse.
    Be honest with yourself and with everybody.
    The second rule is :
    When you make your first post, state what your going for.
    I myself am going for 90 days of no PMO.

    Also, feel free to talk about other challenges your on, like if your on day 25 of no alcohol. I myself am trying a meditation challenge

    Want I want is for us to motivate, help, and inspire each other to reach our 90 day goal(s).

    Here's to us and to the end of the year.

    Inb4 crickets.

    May update this post.
     
  2. Beefcake

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    May my day 0 begin. Good luck everyone.
     
    Last edited: Oct 1, 2018
  3. Archi Kat

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    Far out! Only 90 days left of 2018! Maybe some sort of sign that I joined NoFap today!

    I'm going hard mode: no PMO

    Also doing a 30 day cold water challenge (personal), and 30 day meditation challenge (on another forum).

    All the best @Beefcake !
     
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  4. I'm in because I want to have a better life, being a real nice man with all poeple who are in my life and support me.

    I'm going hard mode until I'll find a girlfriend to share my new better version of human being. then when the indicated moment will arrive I guess I'am going to continue only abstining myself of PM.
     
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  6. @Beefcake and @Archi Kat Congrats for your first day of new life, you have all of my support, I believe in you guys
     
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  7. Beefcake

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    Thanks cami! Day one is on. No urges so far.
     
  8. Archi Kat

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    Hey mate! And congrats to you too! Sometimes it's the small victories that can make all difference! I had a read through your intro and journal thread - will post in your journal thread soon!

    We believe in you too! ✊
     
  9. Hey Mates @Archi Kat and @Beefcake I see that you are really progressing in this new life. I admire you guys. Good weekend for you both. stay strong
     
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  10. Archi Kat

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    @cami123 thanks for the support mate. And congrats on the 23 days! :emoji_dark_sunglasses::emoji_dark_sunglasses::emoji_dark_sunglasses:
     
  11. Thank you friend. I am in really I my 112 day. I expect you both will arrive too
     
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    Good to see you guys are still progressing!
     
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    Tip of the day( something I’ve read numerous times) : I’ve been resisting some hard urges lately . They were especially strong when I was alone in my room , bored. Of all the books I could have read, all the games I could have played, my brain said porn.

    When I really think about, a lot of the times that I say i’m bored, I’m not really. Everything pales in comparison to porn.

    Which is why, especially early in your streak, you have to force yourself do to other things. Make yourself busy.

    Good luck everyone.
     
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    Day 0, I relapsed.
    truth is I've been edging since day 5 and now ,on day 7, I relapsed.
    But i don't feel that bad. I mean i wish I kept my streak but i don't feel drained, I feel relieved.
    And even though I edged, this is the first time since early June i reached 7 days.
    I'm not staying down, I'm hopping back on the wagon, to ride down the bumpy hill to my new life.:emoji_thumbsup:
    Never give up guys.
     
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  16. Mate I believe you will do it better this time, these 7 days were a first little important step, now your challenge is to achieve more than this. I know you will be able to do it.
     
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    All right, I'm in! First day passed :)

    Good luck everyone!
     
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    @Winner01 Good job and thanks for joining.
     
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    Day 6
    For the past few days I had to sleep with my mom because I was getting a new bed and threw my own away for garbage day.
    So on day 4 I encountered some explicit images . In the morning of day 5 I had a wet dream. Thing is it was a dream or me relapsing. As I was fapping I was telling myself no, don’t do it. In the end I relapsed and felt horrible about myself. Only to wake up relieved because
    1. I didn’t actually relapse and 2. I woke up before I stain my moms bed.
    Moral of the story? No moral, just wanted to share. Keep going guys.
     
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