*** The Last Thoughts Challenge ***

In No Order :
1 . I wish I'd work harder to achieve my dreams .
2 . I wish I'd bonded with my sister more .
3 . I wish I'd went to New York to see my nephew again .
4 . I wish I'd go to church more often .
5 . I wish I'd had more patience with my parents .
6 . I wish I'd never gave up so easily on certain things .
7 . I wish I'd had the courage to approach women .
8 . I wish I'd been able to say one last goodbye to everyone .

 

This is a great idea! Although I think it should not be done in a way were you ponder about your regrets - finding more and more regrets over time. Could this happen? Anyway, I'll try to answer the question:


I would regret and I will regret

- missed chances to meet or get intimate(r) with a girl I liked
- missed chances of getting to know people better or improving my relationship with them
- missed chances to do/try awesome new things or to open new doors
- missed chances of stating my opinion despite opposition and be authentic
- spending too much time with boring, repetitive, inactive or even selfharming activites (they should be called "passivities")

 

This is a great thread. These are my list of wishes for the life I would have loved to live:-

• I wish I hadn't let fear hold me back from doing and being so many things when much of it was simply the fear of fear itself
• I wish I had asked the girl out I was in love with when I was 21 and who liked me back and not listened to other guys who told me that a woman like her wouldn't want to be with a guy like me
• I wish I had left home and moved away while still a teen and never looked back
• I wish I hadn't wasted precious time catastrophizing about things which have never happened and were never going to happen
• I wish I could be the person with others that I am when I'm home alone eg with no fear of looking stupid
• I wish I had not compared myself unfavourably with other people and just lived my life on my terms unapologetically
• I wish I hadn't spent so many years involved in religion/spirituality when it's led me to a big fat zero in terms of what I believe
• I wish I hadn't fapped so much and actually gone out there into the real world and actually lived

 

I have too much faith in God I don't think that He has guided me wrong

 

The main thing is I just don't see the benefit it regret. Learn from our mistakes live in the present. Regret is for people who can't accept life is an imperfect, yet perfect experience

 

If I am to die right now,

I'll feel grateful and thankful for the beautiful sunrise I've enjoyed

For the cool mountain air
For the laughter I shared with friends
For the love I received
And all the pork I ate and all the beer I enjoyed

And for this journey and the revelations it gave me! Thamzi! Peace!