The Lord of the Rings Challenge

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by RiseToGreatness, Sep 22, 2019.

Should the Thread Title be extended?

Poll closed Jun 21, 2020.
  1. No, leave like that: "The Lord of the Rings Challenge"

    18 vote(s)
    54.5%
  2. Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: The Fellowship of Nofap"

    15 vote(s)
    45.5%
  3. Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: Rising Fellowship of Eärendil"

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  4. Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: The Journey to Mount Doom"

    5 vote(s)
    15.2%
  5. Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: The Quest of the Ring-bearer"

    6 vote(s)
    18.2%
Multiple votes are allowed.
  1. Prophet Moonstruck

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    Makes you doubt your faith? or the faith in the text? you can explore, you can question, you can even choose what things you do not want to accept, but work towards the good and the good will work towards you.
     
  2. Prophet Moonstruck

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    Stay strong during this period, I suggest setting some things to do as lack of the intensity you got used to might get you in the comfort zone and that's when the honeypot might appear. You can do this week exploring.
     
  3. Prophet Moonstruck

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    Thank you for reposting it, I lost it a while ago but now saved it in my computer to explore it if things have time to get rough!
     
  4. RiseToGreatness

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    welcome back brother. We miss you man :)
     
  5. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    New girl
    Well, once again sex with another girl. This is the 3rd girl I have sex after I broke up with my ex 3 weeks ago. She was very sweet and lovely. It was one of the best sex I had in a while.

    I think celibate life will have to be on hold, sex specially sex with a good girl helps to balance me and makes dealing with the break up more easy.

    Grateful for the experience.
     
  6. RiseToGreatness

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    Checking in Fellowship!! :)

    Feeling sad today after an argument with a significant other. At least i resist and didn´t use porn to numb myself. So a victory there.

    No urges, still in flatline.

    Checking out my brothers. Have a good day :)
     
  7. Kairose

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    Day 116

    Having a hard time...

    Yesterday I went to a party and I'm a person who really struggles with interacting with much people. (I end up being exhausted and most times also frustrated because I'm a big fail at socialising)
    I'm even more frustrated because In my mind I was supposed to have a great time on that party, since it was a party of love, and family atmosphere... The more I socialize, the more I think I have Asperger's, by the way.

    Today I'm still a little depressed and even tho luckily I didn't have any urges my mind is constantly attacking me with negative thoughts... Mostly of hate to others and myself.
     
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  9. Kairose

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    Thank you... I've noticed that without even realizing it, I act in a way that's not really me. Probably as you say, it's me trying to look social... And I end up exhausted and frustrated not only because I'm bad at socialising and small talk, but cause I don't freaking care about neither or them! I'm sick of being held by stuff that's been imposed to me, like f*ing chains, to the point even my personality or way to act is distorted...

    I don't know if I have Asperger's or not (and I'm curious to know why you think I don't). But I'm 100% sure that I'm different. And I really want to be finally okay with it and just be myself...

    Thank you again, God bless you :emoji_heart:
     
  10. hakihitoro

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  11. Slider8

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    Do not define yourself by what you do or what you have for underneath all deeds and possessions there is a divine soul-consciousness capable of everything but bound and blinded by our own erroneous thoughts and beliefs . We are all creators and you have created the mess in your experience, you have the power to create peace and order too;)
     
  12. Slider8

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    :emoji_heart:
     
  13. BloomWasTaken

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    Relapsed. Damn even after her telling me she loves me my trust issues still persist. I've been getting ALOT of relationship anxiety due to my trust issue trauma coming up again as always and it's ruining a perfectly beautiful relationship because I feel dependant on constant reassurance. Obviously, I can't say "just trust her, just don't get anxious" I think that will only get better with time, the thing I can improve right now though is actually distracting myself from the urges rather than just sitting there and convincing myself why I should relapse, which in this case, I've convinced myself because of my relationship anxiety. Yet again, relying on PMO to fix my feelings and problems, a classic.
     
  14. kaerhal

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    Day 3

    Long day today, and fatigued at the prospect of the work I have to complete before the end of the year. Got home and felt the stress-induced urge to relapse, managed to fight it and ended up having a beer instead - well aware that this is a poor coping mechanism so I’d welcome any suggestions for healthy alternatives, one thing I need to do is prioritise prayer and reading my Bible.

    I realise I forgot to clarify at the beginning of my reboot; I’m doing it on hardcore mode (no fishing), really felt the urge to relapse but thankfully it passed. Goodnight all!
     
  15. LuckyMan

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    Checking in. All good. Getting late, going to get offline :)
     
  16. Talz

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    Thanks man. I didn't even think of it this way. I guess I just don't want to be vulnerable or have anyone else have any power over me or my emotions, especially girls. Looking at my past experiences it's easy to see why.

    I wanna be bullet proof so to speak. Impossible though.
     
  17. Talz

    Talz Fapstronaut

    I'll think about what to do. Maybe I'll see if she just wants to swap telegrams or something as I know she has one.
     
  18. HE^MAN

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  19. Prophet Moonstruck

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    congrats on the sex!
     
  20. CALM IN SUFFERING

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    Most of my faith is based on the text and to realy find out the truth you need to realy doubt what you already believe, this is not necessarily a bad thing, but it is hard because I am very involved in my faith.
     

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