The Lord of the Rings Challenge

Day 28, trod on!

 

85 days – Exiting the swamp you found something shining behind a small rock: a ring made of mithril and set with a white gem. Lady Galadriel appears.

"This is Nenya, the Ring of Adamant, and I am its Keeper. I give it to you mighty Traveler, so it may protect you against lust evil."

Quest Magic – Nenya
Got one of the 3 elven rings. Woah!!!

 

18 days
Low urges yesterday
Worked out and took a cold shower
Keep strong my brothers.

 

Live your life all people @RiseToGreatness maybe you remember me but in my opinion NoFap is too toxic and more damaging to me. Thank you for your advices in my journey but I just want to tell everyone this what I realized about NoFap:

If its helping you and all then YES DO IT! Keep going! But if not, if you are the person like me who is constantly asking yourself "why am i so unhappy? Why if other people can whank, watch porn or something and still are more happier or successfull than me?" ITS NOT PORN! ITS THIS NOFAP TOXIC COMMUNITY! ITS HOW YOU THREAT YOURSELF! Maybe you threat yourself too harsh, too bad. Its okay to make mistakes. Its normal to feel sometimes bad. Its important to learn how to love yourself. Go enjoy things. Dont overthink too much free yourself from the toxic people, friends, family or even online forums! This is the message I wished I would read in the past many years before:

THE NOFAP COMMUNITY IS TOXIC (AT LEAST FOR ME not all like some of you i think, but most of what I read or watched online are people with toxic anti-women mindset) it is natural to "experience yourself" or to masturabte. Its even healthy. If porn is damagin you then stop watching it and do things your heart says. Even if its masturbating and phantazicing. Of course everything what you overdose (like food or gambling) is damaging! If you are okay with porn then go watch. Maybe someone there outside is thinking and feeling like me and waiting for a voice or something. If I could help you IM SO HAPPY! ENJOY YOUR LIFE! DONT FOLLOW SOME RULES OR WORDS FROM PEOPLE WHO DONT ALLOW YOU TO MASTURBATE BECAUSE YOU ARE SINGLE AND HAVE NO ONE AND THESE PEOPLE CONSTANTLY RELAPSING EVEN THO THEY GOT A PARTNER! GO OUTSIDE! Meet new people. Dare and trust yourself to get into a relationship. And then you can finally live your life with someone you always wished for. DONT GET IN THAT TOXIC WHEEL! DONT LISTEN TO A TOXIC COMMUNITY! FREE YOURSELF! DO YOUR BEST! Even if its hard right now YOU WILL ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS!!!

Quick reminder: IF NoFap is helping you and making your life better, then do it nobody fucking cares Im saying this to the person who needed to hear or to read this. Like me in the past... I always was confused about that people judged me here when i "relapsed", masturbated or watched porn when i was single. And often I heard it from people who relapsed even tho they got a partner. For me it was very important to learn that with a partner, I dont need porn. No. I need love. I needed to be loved. I needed to give love. I always wanted that!
I watched porn to feel loved or something like that, and that was so wrong! I learned sooo much until I left this stupid mindest shit. Toxic hustling cringe "red pill mindset" and even THE FAKE PEOPLE AROUND ME I LEFT THEM TOO! Thats why I left this community too its too toxic for me. Its TOO damaging for me!!!

And if you are like me, who just needed to be loved and wants to give love, then leave this toxic shit behind you and focus on important things. LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF! Dont be so harsh to yourself. Live your life. enjoy the little things with imporatnt people like friends, family or your partner, kids,grandchildren and so on. Finding your dream job, learn all skills you ever wanted. trust yourself and start to meet new people. Go on dates. Use online apps or ask your people at school, university, work, neighbour, hobby class whatever the fuck it is JUST DO IT! DONT WASTE YOUR TIME HERE! LIVE YOUR DREAMS!!! ITS NEVER TO LATE TO START SOMETHING

And to all people who are triggered now about my message: just shut the fuck up. The most people who thought that quitting porn changed their life forgot one big thing: They did something else in that time. They stopped watching porn and started to for example working out. Of course they will feel better because THEY DID SOMETHING!!! This shit here will not help you if you just quit watching porn but do NOTHING IN YOUR LIFE: it even starts if you trying to build a healthy relationship with your inner child is already something what is productive. THAT was the main purpose of NoFap. To stop an addiction to pornography and get in action to heal yourself and doing things you didnt tried because of porn. Then it got a twist with weird people who wanted to sell "success books" or pills or want you to join their telegram groups or saying that "you are a lose DO THIS BE THE 1 % OF THE WORLD"

I know its very much to read, I hope this doesnt get deleted Im not here to hurt someones feelings or something IM SAYING IT AGAIN IF NOFAP IS HELPING YOU THAN CONGRATULATION TO YOUR JOURNEY Im just saying this in my opinion, in my experience and with many other people who agreeing with me. If you still mad at me i dont fucking care im here to help this person or many person who NEEDED to hear or to read this. So much bullshit I read about "the benefits of NoFap" Im not here to discuss or something I have better time to do this, like I said: I write this to YOU my friend! WE both know that this is not good for us. Take a break from it. Dont say it "relapse" or something dont be so harsh to yourself if your natural desire wants you to experience something. Dont hurt yourself or other people

I hope I didnt forgot something. Im very tired, I know its late, even if this post gets deleted, its okay I just wanted to say it maybe even if its a less chance but maybe if I could help someone with this, Im already happy. Everything you wish me I wish you back
"I promise you that every small consistency little things you do in your daily life, I will garantee you a long term happier life "~ Sam Lui
"Dont drink poison because you are thirsty" ~ Some random dude on TikTok

 

Day 39

 

And if someone has a reeligious mindset like me:
God didnt create things what makes fun just to hurt you. ~
And porn is a "sin" beecause you objectifies people (weether men or women) and not because you arre wasting your semeb or someething

 

Checking in. Steady as she goes.

 

Check in!

 

2 dayy

 

Day 22!

 

I got exposed to some triggering content on youtube. I peeked more than i should i have. Also, cleaned up the browser data immediately after. It was a random video that got pushed to my Youtube feed.

 

Good morning! 91 days and all is well.

 

Check in, Day 1 I guess. Shame. Is it really bad to feel shame? Or is it the way we process it. I remember a Stoic quote that went something like, man is not disturbed by outside events but by the way he reacts to them. These aren’t the exact words, this is what I remember of it.

It’s very hard for me to look people directly in the eye when I give up and slip up. After some time that guilt and shame fades, and confidence starts to return as I keep progressing on this path. When things are going just fine, I feel confident and not guilty, just then things start to go awry. I,…

Rebooting is a multifaceted problem. But what matters most of all is human connection. And,… self reliance. Self sufficiency. It’s hard to think how humanity could’ve gone so low and become so indulged in degeneracy. Even if they’re selling peanuts they’ll first sexualise a woman. It’s hard. Hard to see how P is killing every good thing. Just imagine what internet would’ve been like without P on it? Imagine where we would be if P didn’t exist at all? And imagine, if pop culture weren’t shaped by trends set by P, what would women look like?

It’s hard to speak on a topic relating to women and what has been made of them, without being called a misogynist. But imagine, if “industries” didn’t set beauty standards for women, would the world be any different?


Even cultures, like mine, that were previously immune to the industrialisation of humans and beauty, are now being affected. It’s hard to see cultures wither, traditional etiquette die, replaced by a culture that doesn’t even know what a woman is.

 

@Baki Hanma , @RiseToGreatness Thank you.

 

Day 377
Busy day

 

Day 29, trod on!