The Lord of the Rings Challenge

Should the Thread Title be extended?

  • No, leave like that: "The Lord of the Rings Challenge"

    Votes: 18 54.5%

  • Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: The Fellowship of Nofap"

    Votes: 15 45.5%

  • Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: Rising Fellowship of Eärendil"

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: The Journey to Mount Doom"

    Votes: 5 15.2%

  • Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: The Quest of the Ring-bearer"

    Votes: 6 18.2%
  • Total voters
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Baki Hanma said:
Brother think, with this relaspe you satisfied every sexual fantasies . so you don't have any thoughts except your memories. Now let's begin to walk in the new path. We have nothing to loose now. Let's build this thing! Let's go champ!
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I thought: so you don't have any thoughts except your memories? what does this guy mean?? Then it gave me goosebumps ...
 
icebreaker7 said:
I thought: so you don't have any thoughts except your memories? what does this guy mean?? Then it gave me goosebumps ...
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I mean now you have no lust ful thoughts in your mind because everything you have satisfied. Every fantasies made up our thoughts . lot of thoughts are based on at least what we saw in real life , movies like that. Now you have no lustful thoughts mean you have no sexual fantasies . Let's go champ!
 
Baki Hanma said:
I mean now you have no lust ful thoughts in your mind because everything you have satisfied. Every fantasies made up our thoughts . lot of thoughts are based on at least what we saw in real life , movies like that. Now you have no lustful thoughts mean you have no sexual fantasies . Let's go champ!
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Yes I understand it. I changed your words a little for my Signature, if you don't mind.
With this relapse you satisfied every sexual fantasy. There's nothing left for you to do, you're done. Now let's begin to walk in the new path.
You're done with your sexual fantasies and acting out is what I mean of course.
I like this idea very much. Only not easy to find the right words for it. But for now it won't be published anyway ;):D
 
icebreaker7 said:
@wanttoliveagain congrats on your accomplishment so far and I hope you go on like this, my friend. As for me, I couldn't resist the alluring whispering of the ring anymore and put it on. I was defeated and had to flee back to the Shire. But I will be on my way without further delay. I shall walk all the way back to the House of Elrond and beyond ..

0 days :emoji_star2: You decide to destroy the porn ring! You´re a Hobbit now. You must take the ring to the place where he was made, Mount Doom. You left Hobbiton heading for Bree.
So I was working on something in rl and in the end it was a big success. But I didn't manage to deal with it proplerly. Instead of feeling happy, fulfilled, content with myself and then chill and rest, I "celebrated" with a long, exhausting pmo session.

Technically, it's maybe relevant that first my traffic light turned to red (but I didn't react accordingly, didn't report) and I started to look at porn. Later at home I caved and binged.

What my relapse teaches me

- an honest, full dedication to recovery/ a p-free life is needed and as long as I don't have that (as long as I "doublethink") I won't be successful at what I want to be successful at

- no wlan at home was and is a good idea and barriers between me and p are helpful, but in the end I need to say no to the drug. At some point sooner or later the question will come up: will I or will I not

- self-talk is key and self-talk always shows me where I stand. Just try to be honest with yourself: do you plan to relapse? Are you going to break such and such rule? Just ask yourself. Just make your thoughts visible and deal with your thinking. It's all a question of perspective (and momentum). You are able to neutralize urges and completely change the situation AND YOU KNOW THAT. Only problem: you need to suffer a little bit in that very moment, you need to make the decision and let go the bad idea. Also you need to put just a little bit of effort into your tactic and planning. Then emotion follows action.

- Recovery and self-development goes hand in hand. Old scores needs to be settled. Things to be learned that were never learned properly.

- Very important is relaxing, inner peace and mindfulness. Generally I already have the understanding and the tools. So that's good. Make it a priority and practice it in different settings!
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Thank you for the motivation. Sad to see we parted our ways so soon. But I believe we will be together to the top of the mountain to destroy the ring of pmo as promised ,soon. Till then I will understand you are giving ur best to carry out this journey to the success. Steps may be new, beginning may be new but I believe that fire inside you for destroying this ring of pmo is same as the day you took the vow to destroy it for the 1st time!!! See you there brother.
 
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Baki Hanma said:
Brother think, with this relaspe you satisfied every sexual fantasies . so you don't have any thoughts except your memories. Now let's begin to walk in the new path. We have nothing to loose now. Let's build this thing! Let's go champ!
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Thats what happened with my 1st replase on may 20. After that I simply say myself that it's just a biology and it's the same biology every time, when urges and temptation circle me around. So why go for the same thing again and again if u know what it is, and u also know the feeling of the outcome afterwards!!! It's all the mind games, either you play with ur mind, or your mind will play with ya ;)
 
icebreaker7 said:
Yes I understand it. I changed your words a little for my Signature, if you don't mind.
With this relapse you satisfied every sexual fantasy. There's nothing left for you to do, you're done. Now let's begin to walk in the new path.
You're done with your sexual fantasies and acting out is what I mean of course.
I like this idea very much. Only not easy to find the right words for it. But for now it won't be published anyway ;):D
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Those new words make a beautiful quote :). Good Luck!
 
Day 35

I have entered the Halls of Moria, I'm a Dwarf now! Really excited to have made it this far once again, this is probably only the second time since my longest streak. Collected the keys to my new home today, spent a lot of time doing admin sorting out utilities etc. Feeling really good about the future, and I can honestly say I'm feeling happy!
 
I happened to have a few rough days . No matter how badly I wanted to do something I have always had trouble completing work , often taking it into the last moments and ultimately having to satisfy with whatever I am able to pull off at final moments . This ultimately leads to stress .procrastination .The fact that I am ailing from a minor injury have made things worse . I ended up relapsing . The guilt of the relapse lead to even more relapses ,I was kind of ashamed to come back here.

Making this small commitment to come back here no matter what everyday.

Day 0
 
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