The Lord of the Rings Challenge

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Day 11!
icebreaker7 said:
1 day - At Buckland, Bilbo gives you Sting - an Elven short-sword made in Gondolin. It will turn blue when porn forces are around.
Quest Item - Sting :emoji_zap:

After a lot of recovery work, planning, motivation and then relapse I'm tempted to bring my whole approach into question. But that would be stupid, wouldn't it? It was one shitty day and I'm already ready for another streak. When relapsing I also "felt obliged" to neglect my sugar rules and since did a lot to undermine my fragile but working healthy lifestlye.

My point is, I should continue like before, when all other options are clearly worse.

However, I'm also seeing that I was invested a little bit too much in my recovery - planning long ahead (expecting success) and writing a lot in the forums is also a way to push dopamine and doesn't necessarily reflect current or future progress. Also I can see that I listened a little bit too much to motivational and explanatory self-help content, while neglecting mindfulness, meditation and simple things like cleaning, getting things in order.
Yes, often it's the easy and obvious things that help me most.

But I can also see - and shouldn't neglect it - that I definitely made progress. I made two longer streaks and despite relapses I'm simply in a much better place than before.

CONCLUSION

I'l try to continue my recovery as before, but not overdo it, not get lost in details or illusions. Keep it simple, ice!
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cold showers,exercising,meditation is major pillars of NoFap. wet dreams and sexual thoughts are provoking our mind into bad thoughts. To reduce wet dreams, meditate and always try to calm your mind.Before I go to sleep , I ask from god "please donot put any of sexual thoughts in to my mind" and I figured out that it is working.I hadn't any wet dreams within this streak. Lot of times when we are facing any struggles we talk to god . So we can get help from him. Sexual fantasies and sexual thoughts are in our control. It is hard. when sexual thought comes into our mind we need to decline it.yeah It is hard but if you do this 3 or 4 days , It is not hard. Mental celbacy is also crucial part.If not when we reaching higher day counts, our energy is increasing and our mind will use this to entertain sexual thoughts.

Major thing is finding some goal and tell your self "I will not do PMO untill i reach that goal". We know it take long time to reach goals so unintentionally we do mental celibacy and physical celibacy. So it become habit to us. We can trust this , because we know lot of benifits when we are in our streak like improve our focus etc. So I tell to myself, Untill I find a women to marry, I will not do pmo.


Brother we are heros in life ,beacuse life is a like a movie.Now we suffer like what heroes are doing in movies. And We rise. I learn lot of things from three movies. These are Batman Begins,The Dark Knight, The Dark Knight rises.Let's go , Never give up .Good Luck brother!

WE FALL, WE BREAK, WE FAIL BUT THEN WE RISE, WE HEAL , WE OVERCOME




 
Baki Hanma said:
congratulations brother!

Let's go!
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Kaerhal said:
Day 43

Today marks the beginning of my second-longest streak, 205 days to go until my new PB!

@MS PBH congratulations mate, great progress!!
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Average_Joe0285 said:
Day 9 in the books. Stay strong Fellowship!


Congratulations on reaching one month mate - onwards and upwards!
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Thank you, everyone, for your support. Your encouragement means a lot to me, and I couldn't do this without you. Let's keep supporting each other and moving forward together.
 
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