The Lord of the Rings Challenge

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  • No, leave like that: "The Lord of the Rings Challenge"

    Votes: 18 54.5%

  • Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: The Fellowship of Nofap"

    Votes: 15 45.5%

  • Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: Rising Fellowship of Eärendil"

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: The Journey to Mount Doom"

    Votes: 5 15.2%

  • Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: The Quest of the Ring-bearer"

    Votes: 6 18.2%
  • Total voters
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PeaceOnEarth108 said:
11 days – You spend the night at the old Watchtower of Amon Sûl. PMO forces are lurking in the area.

I don't want to go to work to day. I hate my job currently and regret my choice. Perhaps it will get better over time.
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Everybody has bad days, and everybody regrets their choices sometime. The challenge is to see the doubts through. It will get better, I can assure you. It is usually more how you see things than your actual choices that forms how you like your everyday life!

With time, ending PM addiction will make you appreciate the small things in life, and they will be enough to make you fulfilled.

Keep it up, brother!
 
RiseToGreatness said:
547 days brave Fellowship.

Not feeling well lately, i´ve been dealing with a serious health problem which causes a deep impact in my mood and energy levels. Anyway i´m totally focused on solving this problem and i believe in myself, God and the people around me to overcome this hard situation. My hardest trial after quitting PMO.

To all of those who are struggling with PMO, you can do this my friends. It´s hard but it´s doable and totally worth it. You´re life will become WAY BETTER without porn and masturbation. But don´t wait, create a great life with your good habits now, have fun, and things will unfold naturally.

Big hug brave Warriors. I believe in you.
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You are a big motivation to all of us. You know you are strong so believe in the future like you believe in God and yourself. You are going to manage this trial like you have and are managing the threats of PMO. I will pray for you and your health.

I believe in you, my friend!
 
Day 196

Can’t lose the feeling that I’m coasting; making gradual progress clearing out my wardrobe and possessions, but don’t feel like I have any actionable goals or hobbies to pursue.

Taking up exercise and cooking more meals are easy things I can implement, but I also need a pursuit. Seeing friends around town more would also be amazing, but need to make sure I’m putting my health first.
 
RiseToGreatness said:
0 days - You decide to destroy the porn ring! You´re a Hobbit now. You must take the ring to the place where he was made, Mount Doom. You left Hobbiton heading for Bree.
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RiseToGreatness said:
1 day - At Buckland, Bilbo gives you Sting - an Elven short-sword made in Gondolin. It will turn blue when porn forces are around.
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Day 1 in the books. I became complacent over the weekend and underestimated just how small some of my triggers are. Once you set one off, sometimes unbeknownst to you, you’ve started a chain reaction that leads to PMO. I failed to stop this reaction. The good news is that despite the relapse I got myself into the gym these past two days for weight training so I’m feeling positive. Learn from your failures. Good to see you’re all doing well; and an obligatory warning to those considering relapse: it’s not worth it! Stay strong Fellowship!
 
Rumination - how on earth do you deal with it?

Every week or so I remember something from my porn addiction; it’s always a memory that makes me feel like I’m a POS, and it takes me ages to process it. Often I solve it by telling my wife what’s burdening me, but this isn’t a viable long-term solution; I can’t go running to her every time I feel bad, I need the tools to deal with the emotions and work through them myself.

My wife doesn’t fix the problem, it’s accepting that I’m forgiven that fixes the problem - any tips or wisdom on how to stop a cycle of unhelpful thoughts?
 
RiseToGreatness said:
547 days brave Fellowship.

Not feeling well lately, i´ve been dealing with a serious health problem which causes a deep impact in my mood and energy levels. Anyway i´m totally focused on solving this problem and i believe in myself, God and the people around me to overcome this hard situation. My hardest trial after quitting PMO.

To all of those who are struggling with PMO, you can do this my friends. It´s hard but it´s doable and totally worth it. You´re life will become WAY BETTER without porn and masturbation. But don´t wait, create a great life with your good habits now, have fun, and things will unfold naturally.

Big hug brave Warriors. I believe in you.
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Sorry to hear that brother
May the God that you strongly believe in heal your health problem just like he healed you from pmo addiction and used you to created a wonderful legacy here on NF which is helping many of us to heal

Wishing you good luck and healing
 
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