Day 8 starts today....not having urges or anything ....just the same usual boners..without sexual excitation.. Guys i want to say something... Whenever we think about anything it puts a great impact on our mind....as it has came in mind because we felt affected by that... Whenever we see some cruel content we have a blur memory of that for a long time.... Same is with sexual content whether it is watching p or just seeing some attractive people in erotic poses...or anything which makes us aroused....everything puts a impact on our mind...just like our studies and daily habits...which we pursue everyday...makes our mind in the same way.... Just leaving pmo is not enough...we also have to control our minds..so that we dont think about it anymore...our goals will be different from getting a quick relief from stress... Finally i have completed my first week here...
*sigh* Y'all, I caved last night, and the day before. I was too shameful to log on yesterday to tell everyone, because I haven't made it past 16 days in a very long time. Regardless, I couldn't come back on here and lie as though I hadn't given up, when the rest of you are fighting so valiantly. With that said, I'm starting over. Day 0.
Hey brother, I love you! Jesus loves you! Keep going. Don't quit. Keep showing up. That's what killed me 4 years ago. I made 90 days and failed. Then I gave up and stopped coming because I thought I lost all my worth, I couldn't come back because I was too ashamed. But it was a lie. It's not about never messing up. It's about living in honest humility, trusting God to do for us what we can't do for ourselves. We don't quit.
Wow brother, thank you! I love you as well man. Its wild how the mutual love of Christ brings together people who haven't even met each other, to fight together towards holiness in Him! Your love and encouragement means so much to me man, thank you!!
exactly. all urges pass! some may even seem unberable, but they pass completely. just hold on brothers and change the situation fast, don´t stay in hesitation, change the situation fast! the urge will go away