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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by RiseToGreatness, Sep 22, 2019.
Keep it up, don’t give in!
Day 14 completed successfully
Porn is rarely the only problem you have. You’re hosting a party and porn never comes to the party alone. It always brings friends and the longer and harder your party, the crazier the friends it invites. We now understand that porn changes the brain. You can never assume that your only problem with porn is that you “watch too much and masturbate too much”
Here are a few examples of some of the problems that “party” with porn:
— Erectile Dysfunction
— Sexual aggression and even angriness
— sex addiction
— Depression of relapsing or can't able to control the addiction
— Sexual deviancy & change in sexual preference
— getting ideas of performing acts seen in porn either on your loved ones or bringing of Prostitutes
— And getting habituated to prostitutes and spending money on porn sites and striper clubs without thinking about them
— Change of thinking process viewing more disturbing things and increasing the level of kinky and maybe the acts once you may have fed disturbing or disgusted
— Increased viewing time don’t know when the day as turned into night and not caring about the important tasks to be done at that moment
So be careful brothers
think wisely before you click
Either bear the pain of self-discipline or the bear the pain of regret and depression
all the best brothers
Checking in for day 4(score and seven years ago).
The week since my relapse last week has been difficult. Just wanted to check in to renew my determination. Though I may be at my lowest, and though I may keep falling, I thankfully retain the most important thing in this struggle, and that is the will to fight. I am proud of and inspired by your work and determination. Never give up!
Today is Day 4 and I had trouble getting up this morning but I know what I need to do so that I don't. I am not going to let myself relapse like all those times before.
Day 11. I had a weird sex dream last night but nothing beyond that.
77 days done
Excellent my brother. "You reached the Black Gate of Mordor. Power and wisdom runs through your veins, you´re a servant of the Secret Fire, Wielder of The Flame of Anor, a Grey Wizard."
Now study the Gate, brother, since it´s closed and heavily guarded by PMO forces. Maybe there´s another way in...
Welcome back brother. Let´s do this together, it´s the only way!
energy will come back brother. just make sure the 3 axis of energy are in place - sleep, nutrition and physical exercise - . Let´s go!!!
excellent brother, coming clean is super important to the reboot. here´s my take on that:
"If your married i strongly suggest you come clean with your wife. By telling the truth about your problem she can be a source of support. It´s also better to know the truth from you instead of finding out. But don´t make her your Accountability Partner because she´s too involved in the problem to be objective (tecnically pmo is cheating) so just tell her your problem and that you´re on recovery."
Meanwhile, congratulations mighty Uruk-Hai. Keep fighting!!!!!!!
Day 1. Feeling good, glad that started again.
Let´s go again my brother . Remember, the relapse is not an event, it´s a process.
Follow your reboot system = sobriety.
Soften the reboot system = relapse.
Meanwhile, congratulations, the House of Elrond receives you . You´re an Elf now!!!
Keep going my brother!!!!
Ma man!!! That´s the spirit . Welcome to Rivendell!!!
Rest for tonight brave Elf. Tomorrow the journey turns to Moria!!!
Very good brother. Keep fighting!!! Porn is nothing but lies.
I agree . You´re an Uruk-Hai now brother. still a servant of PMO evil, but the inner rage is getting stronger. Keep fighting!!!!!!!
i'm in, currently on a 2 day streak
One more day along the Ephel Dúath my brothers and sisters
One of the things a pmo addict feels is that there´s a sense that sexual variety must exist, that having one single partner is a drag and we should keep the excitment flowing with multiple partners.
i want to tell you that, except for lack of love or relationship problems, there´s no reason that a normal brain won´t settle up with one single partner.
the idea of having multiple partners (affairs) is just another dopamine boost that the addict brain craves for. once the reboot starts taking place, and we withdrawn from porn and masturbation, we naturally see that it´s pointless and counterintuitive to split our heart and mind with multiple partners, real or virtual. One partner becomes itself a multiple source of excitment and joy.
here´s an elucidative picture from a brother in reddit.
Have a great day!!!!