The most dangerous porn genre available.. trigger warning!!

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Infinite spirit, Mar 24, 2019.

  1. Vandermeer

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    Problematic thread. If you start something like: "most dangerous porn fetish!!!!! Beware!!!!"
    It´s like an invitation for people on the edge of relapse.
     
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  2. Becoming Jasmine

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    Yeah that’s a good point. People are also just trained by the digital age to google anything new they see online. We’ve all become addicted to surfing the web, and we’re not used to limits being placed on our curiosity at this point. So yeah, it is pretty tempting to look it up. I must admit I’ve been tempted to see what these captions/videos look like, but I haven’t given in. People way more on the edge might have trouble though.
     
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  3. Infinite spirit

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    I already said "trigger warning " in the title.
     
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  4. Vandermeer

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    "Trigger warning" = "Parental advisory. Explicit content"
     
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  5. IR254

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    I see your very valid point and generally agree. Maybe the OP could have phrased it better.

    However, I think it is important that we can discuss all kinds of pornography in detail, this type included. It might trigger people on the edge of relapse, but it might also help the people caught up in it - myself included - to find patterns, causes, effects, links and solutions.

    Maybe we as a community should develope a better system of dealing with triggering content in general. Could be worth a thought.
     
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  6. IGY

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    I sincerely hope that you are not caught up in this personally. :( If so, please reach out for assistance.
     
  7. ZenAF

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    First of all, don't check his history behind his back, that won't do you no good. But now that you already did you need to talk about it openly and tell him that it worries you. It's nice of you that you offer to accommodate him into that direction, but if he says no it means that he's probably ashamed of liking this stuff and deep down doesn't want it to become his whole life. He wishes for normality, but he's an addict. Encourage him to quit his addiction, explain to him what could happen to your relationship if he doesn't. If he agrees to change you'll need a lot of patience. But if he's worth it, he's worth it that's for you to decide.
    You're such an asshole for suggesting that to her man, I can't believe you. You don't even know these people and what kind of relationship they have. You're a fucking addict yourself, you of all people should understand what situation he's in. Imagine she was your girl and she's on the verge of leaving you because she's desperate even tho you love each other, she looks for advice on a forum and then some douche suggests to her that watching porn is basically the same as cheating (what an idiotic notion btw) and that she should leave you. And then you lose your love because of that guy! What makes you think you have the right to judge him like that considering you're an addict yourself?
    Honestly your "advice" to her is so biased I wouldn't be surprised if it's fueled by your own resentment because you don't have a relationship. Which I'm sure you don't because how in the world could you otherwise suggest such a thing.
     
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  8. Infinite spirit

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    1 im no longer an addict .
    2 that is my opinion..watching other women is cheating on your partner ..you have no right to call me an idiot if you have different opinion.
    3 she asked a question ..and I told her what "i" think of the issue politely ..and I insist on that because porn is worse than drugs in my eyes and this relationship will he toxic . It's ok to disagree with me but you have no right to call me an asshole.
    You need to apologize to me.
     
  9. Vandermeer

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    He did not call you an "idiot". Learn to read other comments properly before lamenting about them. "The Idiot" is a wonderful piece of literature.
    Your stuff is not even worthy to think about it longer than a few minutes. Honestly, in my opinion I think it´s same possible that you are an agent provocateur as it´s possible that you really that simple and biased in mind as you present yourself.
     
  10. ZenAF

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    1. You still are an addict, so am I. You're being delusional if you think that changes within a month.
    2. Watching other women is not cheating on your partner, your conception of relationships is very naive if you think that's the case.
    3. I called you an asshole because what you did was pathetic because you lacked any empathy for the situation. I'd maybe just call you radical if you were 3 years off porn and posted nothing but useful things on this forum, but that's just not you. You need to check yourself and get off your high horse.
    4. If anyone needs to apologize, it's you to that girl.
     
  11. Infinite spirit

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    Wow..I seem to trigger you so much.
    He said that my notion of watching porn being identical to cheating is an idiotic notion..yeah if you want to be litteral he didn't call me an idiot..
    He called me "asshole" just cuz I said my opinion politely and I didn't even mention him.
     
  12. Vandermeer

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    Do not overestimate yourself so foolishly. You are not able to trigger me, even if you wanted it most in the world.
     
  13. porsche4life

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    Man there's definitely some sort of an agenda behind all of this porn. The world elite are Satanists they want to ruin people's souls so they can drag everybody with them to hell. I can't describe it any other way, this is so degenerating in glad I never got into hypno stuff.
     
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    1 I AM NOT AN ADDICT anymore .please speak about yourself. H
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    are you to decide for me wether I'm an addict or not based on how far I've come?!.
    2thats is YOUR OPINION. I have different option .if you think your opinion is the ultimate truth and other option is silly then you are the one who needs a reality check .
    3 no matter what..that was MY LOOK at her situation and I speaked politely .. you have no right whatsoever to call me that especially that it's not your business anyways.
    4 who are you to call me radical or not..to judge me or not..who the fuck are you ..!..who do you think you are?
    I really need to apologize . I'm sorry...im sorry because I gave you a minute of my precious time when you don't deserve to be listened to.
     
  15. Infinite spirit

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    What is your proplem yo too?!..im out ..
    People are weird today!
     
  16. ZenAF

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    There are "opinions" that are closer to reality than others. You can think the earth is flat and call it your opinion, you're still being silly.
    Again, what makes your suggestion narrow minded is because you don't feel for the guy at all even though you're supposed to be able to understand him because you are in the same boat. And when it comes to the state of your addiction, I'd bet everything I own that if a neurobiologist would scan your brain he would still deem you addicted by scientific standards no matter how far you think you've come. It doesn't even matter because you've BEEN addicted for sure so you're supposed to know that a warped porn addicted sex drive isn't the same as love, unless you've never been in a proper relationship then of course you don't know what the fuck you're talking about, are in no position to give any advice and should shut the fuck up.
    And your politeness has nothing to do with it. That's like raping somebody and then pointing out that you were responsible because you used a condom.
     
  17. Infinite spirit

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    Fuck off!
     
  18. ShotDunyun

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    Hey man, thanks for the heads up. To be honest I've only heard about this kind of porn in this site, and I never felt curious about it. Now I know I have to avoid it at all costs.
     
  19. I didn't know about "Gooning" until this post, but the concept is what did me in. Here's how I fell for it: I was on the verge of becoming addicted to other forms of porn with the predictable negative results. One of them was climaxing too fast when engaging in real sex. There is an old method of treatment for this known as the "start and stop" and "squeeze" methods. So I figure I'll just start and stop while using porn to increase my stamina. I had no idea of the dangers of porn and what I was doing to myself.

    Then I come across this genre called "Cock-hero" which is kind of like the video game "Guitar Hero" where you pluck a fake guitar to the beat of popular music. In "Cock-hero" you stroke your dick to the beat of popular music to see if you can last to the end of the videos which are 30, 40, 60, even 90 minutes or more in length. All the while it's quick cuts to dozens of different sex scenes with insanely rapid stroke patterns accompanied by the "thump-thump-thump" of the bass line of catchy music while you try to prevent climax, which is essentially edging. In fact there are "edging hero" versions where there is a countdown, etc. When I found this, I was in LOVE.

    Looking back on it, there was no way it could have ended good. At the time, though, the practice of getting yourself to and staying at a mind numbing state of arousal for a long time was intoxicating and before long I couldn't get enough. It wasn't accompanied by the overt messages of addiction but the effect was the same. It was the slippery slope and only accelerated my decent into the porn madness. Thank goodness I came close to hitting rock bottom and made the decision to climb out of that pit.

    These CH and Edging videos seem to be fan made, stitched together by people who think they are just improving on the way people watch porn. Who doesn't fast forward past the set up scenes? Who really cares about the fake moans and fake dialogue? Give them money shot after money shot put to current, engaging music in a video that lasts for hours. What could go wrong?

    If pornography is evil, this weaponized version is absolute evil.
     
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  20. NamaClature14

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    I want to honestly know what the OP is trying to get across with this thread & title? To me it would be like you going up to group of alcoholics and saying "whatever you do, don't try this liquor! It tastes great and will get you so drunk but mess your life up bad, don't go drink it guys!" That's completely counter productive to the addict.
    So from what i gather.. you want everyone who is already here and not looking at porn(or attempting to) to be aware of a more dangerous type of porn? WHY? We're already here. We're not in on the porn sites looking for more, we don't need to be made aware of sicker shit, we're getting out of the dump house. If we're already in the camp of zero porn use, why would you want to make a bunch of addicts aware of such a dangerous and addictive form of porn? Do you see what I'm getting at OP? Do you see how that could be counter-productive?

    Free speech is promoted here and i stand by that but at the same time
    what are you thinking? What are you trying to do here? Please enlighten me. You say your not an addict anymore, ok fine. So since your now a non-addict talking to a bunch of addicts, some who have gone 100s and 100s of days and then relapsed(who still consider themselves addicts), what is it that you are trying to do by informing us of this genre? Because i would have never known it existed before you came along and told me.

    There's an old story about a christian missionary who first reaches the Lakota Native American's and tells them about Jesus Christ. He informs them that only through Jesus Christ will their souls be saved and without him they will go to hell. When the Lakota Chief asks the missionary "What of those who had never heard of Jesus Christ, are they damned to hell as well?" The missionary replies that God and Jesus are merciful and those people are sparred, to which the Chief replies "Then why did you tell us?"

    So now i really want to know, why did you tell us? What's your purpose here?
     
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