The Most Important NoFap Lesson I've Ever Learned

Guys.... Today I've completed DAY 123 of Hardmode and only 16 Days left to break my current 138 days... Aiming to Never watch p****graphy and Masturbate in my life Ever again. Relapse is not an option and i would rather Die than being a slave and little bitch of PMO lifestyle.
Currently it is as easy as is to Breathe for me. But I'm aware of urges, hornyness and possible triggers may come very very soon, so I'm staying focused and vigilant and alert. So should You guys....
But what i want to shake with you TODAY is called NON-ATTACHMENTS towards girls/Women.

Lets start this story...... So you, me and many other guys in here... You started to watch and do PMO ADDICTION around age of 10...
And continued DOING this addiction almost 10 year until you were 20 and realized your life is complete mess and you are a looser.
Than you discovered NOFAP.
From 10 to 20 y.o. your life wasnt nothing extra... Sometimes good, sometimes bad
But you didnt have any goal any dream any aim in life... So it was mostly swimming in pool of mediocrity and Depression.
You watched a lot of PMO related Stuff, so you wasnt much popular in school, didnt have many friends, you were kinda Loner, maybe a victim of bullying and Stuff like that. But the worst Thing for you was this...... Most of the time you were INVISIBLE for the Girls. But you had your PMO so you didnt think that much about it.
You didnt had lot of relationships with Girls, maybe even never had any relationship..
Or very short relationship. You dont have much experiences in sex with Girls or maybe None. So you are kinda obsessed with having a girlfriend, having a relationship and you are Trying to gain women ATTENTION.
And not be INVISIBLE for them again.
You put WOMEN on pedestal and thing about them as some MIRACLE ANGLES which will save your life and make you ultimately HAPPY.
OHHH once i have a girlfriend, than i will do NOFAP, once i have a girlfriend only then i will be happy....
You put WOMEN/Girls as your number 1 priority in your life! And this is COMPLETELY Wrong and Bullshit.
Your number one Priority in life must be your Dreams, goals, hobbies, activities and not an
OBSSESSION with your Girlfriend.
She must Know that you have other things to do. She is not your everything and not the whole UNIVERSE is around her.
Never be ATTACHED to her, never be ADDICTED to her.
And now for the REAL life Examples.
If you are dating some girl
STOP being a nice guy, sending her bunch of love emojis a lot of ❤️ emojis and writting her good night, good morning and Stuff like that. Stop being too nice and too sweet towards her. (not sayint to be mean or act like a dickead)
But this too sweet, too nice Behaviour makes you WEAK and its not Attractive and she sense it.
And will make a fool of you.

When you have A girlfriend, but your relationship is short or at the beginning.
STOP writting or calling her, all the time
Or checking if she texted you back Fast.
This also shows that you are addicted to her and she knows that you are obsessed with her. Dont writte her how much she miss you or write it very very rarely.
Dont Spend your whole free time with her
It will also make you look WEAK and not Masculline.

Dont post bunch of photos or messenger or instagram stories with her or in this style...
On my way to my love or honey and bunch of ❤️❤️ again will make you look weak and ATTACHMENT towards her.
I was always obsessed with the idea of having a GF and Working out with her in the gym.... And today MY opinion is like NAH..
THE gym is my therapy, mine Temple of Iron and its my hobby and i dont want to be there with GF. it will also make you Non-focused and maybe you wont enjoy it as much..
Also it will take you the rest of your freedome for yourself.
My point is.. never let the girl /Women be your whole world for you, never be OBSSESSED by her, never depend only on
Her, stop writting her the time. Stop being so NICE. AND be the MEN.

ALSO one but truly IMPORTANT Nofap lesson and advice.....

Try spending most of your time outside....
You Know.... I never relapsed in the park, in the gym, in the forrests, in the lake.... In the Sea.

Most of us ALWAYS relapsed at HOME, in Bed, doing nothing, being bored, pointlessly browsing social media and internet.. Doing nothing, to improve our life and make us a better person.

Also None- videogames, movies, Series, Porn, Masturbation, internet or social media
Will give you such a feeling of happiness, freedom, confidence, Joy, bliss, pride, motivation like a good Gym Workout, street workout, walking in the nature, Reading outside, 10km (or miles) of biking and then swimming in cold lake.

PMO, social media, videogames is like being in the desert compared to tropical paradise.

Peace & NOFAP... my brothers

 

Yes i would like to have family and atleast one Kid, but i dont force it.
Im not depressed because i dont have GF right now, and a will not cry if this never happen. Thats life,
I love to work on myself, my body, my knowledges, my Nofap Journey, my Dreams and thats number 1 priority not a GF right now