The Motivational thread.

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Kratos_GOW, May 26, 2019.

  1. Kratos_GOW

    Kratos_GOW Fapstronaut

    So what does this thread represent?.

    To anyone who saw and opened this thread. I want you to write down all the changes you got from abstaining from PMO for a minimum of +14days. Be it any change.
    I think this might help BEGINNERS AND PEOPLE WHO RELAPSED RECENTLY TO GET THEM BACK ON TRACK.

    I will post here top after 7 days and every week completed of NoFAP.

    So i urge you please if you can it will be great for all of us.
     
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  2. CoolBuddy7

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    I was able to think very clearly, or as many might call it, I had "reduced brain-fog". Earlier I lived in my very own distorted reality, which I think was largely influenced by Binging on Porn. I had more time, because I didn't waste my time on PM anymore ! My view on Porn changed, and led me to realize what it really is ! Jerking off leaves you with little energy left, and basically tired for the rest of the day, so abstaining sure means, surges in an individual's energy-levels ! I wasn't angry for most parts, as I usually were before abstaining !

    These are some of the benefits I can think of at the moment. I will post more when I acknowledge even more benefits that I had experienced ! BTW, it's a really good idea. Appreciate the efforts you put in, brother !
     
  3. Yes bro it is a good idea
    I did nofap for 33 days , today I am on leave again,
    The results were amazing bro
    I was motivated towards my goals , clear thought process, eyes appeared a bit shiney during that period of time ,I had habbit of slouching that was very less during nofap, I felt energetic
    Most important was I didn't had the frustration/guilt that I maurbated , on 30th day I was really happy that I could abstain from pmo for 30 days , but on 33 day I saw some thing seducive on utube , later I moved to porn sites and jerked ,in that frustration I jerked 2 more times in about 4-5 hours , but tomorrow morning when I wake up will be my 1 success after this failure and this time I would like to go beyond 90 days on hard mode

    I have earlier also tried NoFap but this is quiet common that which ever I materbate after many days I do it 2 or 3 times , which I hate , also suggest what can I do to improve that
     
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  4. Kratos_GOW

    Kratos_GOW Fapstronaut

    Thank you both for sharing. Please also share this where you can so this thread can have a collection of information so next time of anyone wants to fap, after seeing this thread he fight and changea his mind.
     
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  5. Ra1

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    Your will power rises each day you abstain from porn. This power reflects in each and every work you do
     
  6. CoolBuddy7

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    Yeah, it's the same with me too. I go on a binge after abstaining from Porn and Masturbation, no matter how long ( or Short - as it has usually been ! ) I stayed away from it. I have to stop doing such kind of destructive things. Maybe, I should get to a deeper understanding of How I am affected by Binging, after convincing myself to Reset each and every single time.

    True that ! You do not get those loads of dopamine you horrendously gave yourself anymore. So, you would have to do something in order to make yourself happy, Simply said you get your Dopamine Fix. This in turns leads thyself to start working towards achieving his/her goals in life, meaning that they get immensely motivated to achieve their Goals.

    That's a really good point. Everyone experiences the guilt of having had fapped, after indulging in the practice. Every single one, acknowledges that fact. It is not something ordinary. If everyone feels the same way, after having Jerked off, it means it is an act not worthy of being continued ! People feel guilty for having done something bad ! and if we feel guilty after Masturbating, it means that, we have to take a stand against it !
     
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  7. Bragi

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    Every morning I go in shower since nofap, I feel like Goku SSJ3 version. I feel myself. I feel my energy that can shake the whole building. Every time I play play basketball with friends I run around as fast as I can, tongue out, going fast, scoring, losing, winning, laughing, screaming - everything has real emotion now.
    Beard is growing already, this time I want to keep it longer. New hairstyle, new people around me. More runs, more cold showers and more LIFE! I'M LIVING AND I DONT WANT TO STOP! NOFAP MAKES ME STRONG AS HELL, BOY! I dont see any reason to do these stupid "30 day nofap challanges" when I can never fap again. Fuck yeah! I have power of will and no relapse will stop me from where I am. Even if that happens I WILL get myself together and I WILL LIVE AGAIN! CAUSE I LOVE LIFE NOW!
     
  8. CoolBuddy7

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    @heyyay It's inspiring, What you've said !
     
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  9. Kratos_GOW

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    Motivating!!!
     
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  10. CH3RRY

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    Something insane started happening the same time I took it seriously to try to quit. I am a rational person but I can't explain why this started happening and I've had thoughts if it had something to do with me quitting my habit. I'm talking about attraction, I won't go into any more detail but it was mad. It started one day all of a sudden, and it's been like that ever since. I haven't mentioned this ever before on this website.(Besides one post I made back in autumn trying to rationalize this). Again I'm a very rational and logical person, but I can't explain how it all started right at the same time that I made my first attempts to quit.

    And you know what's funny? Last summer when I took it seriously to try to quit, I was looking at this one girl's pics on Instagram. She went to my school and I thought she was the hottest girl in there. I was feeling so lonely back then thinking about her. Little did I know that the following semester, I wouldn't be the one looking at her, it would be the other way around. There's SO much more than this, but this particular event struck me.

    Now talking about some specific changes to me. During last summer I didn't manage to quit, it was only at early autumn when I managed to completely do it. I had crazy energy at the beginning. I would wake up so energetic in the morning. I didn't even want to lay in bed at all, I had so much energy. And I had never in my life been like that. My skin also became very clear. It looked like I was glowing. Even in pictures that I had taken back then, it looks like I'm glowing. I became irrationally happy during autumn as well. I would feel happy just randomly while doing nothing.

    Now I can't prove those were all because of abstaining, it was most likely a combination of things happening in my life, but I believe it was the most impactful factor. Changes that I know happened because of abstaining are that I didn't have the porn-induced objectification of females in my head anymore and that I would actually be interested and aroused by them.

    I hope someone found this interesting, and motivational. Take it from a guy whose best friends are logic and rationality: you can change in an unfathomable way.
     
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  11. CoolBuddy7

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    @CH3RRY That post was interesting, and it has made me want to reach better heights this time. Thank you for this post !
     
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  12. Kratos_GOW

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    Really happy for you
     
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  13. bikinhappy

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    I finished day 5th.
    I was selected as leader in my town entrepreneur community.
    I am not the best entrepreneur, my business also not the biggest.
    But somehow I gain respect among them.
    It's a challenge for me, but I will do my best :)
     
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  14. CoolBuddy7

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    Very Glad to know that, @bikinhappy ! Do your best, and best Wishes !
     
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  15. Kratos_GOW

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    Hmm alright, I did it too, you all can see. But I want to ask you the same question, I have been asking myself.
    Is this our limit? Is this how far we can go? Are we no better then those guys who spend their day in and day out in bars drinking to their death, struggling with addictions, relationships, stable life. Is this it?.
    I SAY HELL NO. TO HELL WITH WHAT OUR ADDICTION SAYS.TO HELL WITH OUR URGES. WHAT MATTERS RIGHT NOW IS THAT WE ARE BORN FOR GREATNESS. WE ARE BORN TO BE A WARRIOR. WE ARE NOT THE ONE WHO WILL SUFFICE IN SMILE. WE ARE HERE TO CLAIM THAT BIGGER PRICE. THE BIGGER LIFESTYLE. A BETTER INCOME AND A BETTER VERSION OF OURSELF. MY BROTHERS, I HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF MYSELF LACKING AND WATCHING ALL THAT SHITTY PORN AND FEEL LONELY. ITS TIME TO MAKE OURSELF. IT IS TIME TO LEARN NEW SKILLS. ITS TIME TO LIVE THE LIFE WE ARE BORN TO DO. DO YOU KNOW WHATS UNREAL? OUR SEMEN CAN PRODUCE A NEW LIFE AND WE ARE WASTING IT ON A LED SCREEN. WE WILL NOT!!! NOT ANYMORE.
    THE FACT THAT I HAVE ASHAMED MYSELF WITH THE ACT OF DOING RELAPSED, AGAIN AND AGAIN, I HAVE HAD ENOUGH.

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    NOW THINGS ARE GONNA CHANGE. HARD MODE PEOPLE. NOT TO ME TO EVERYONE. UNLESS I MAKE SOMETHING OUT OF MYSELF I WILL FIGHT DAY IN AND DAY OUT.
    SO I ASK YOU ARE YOU WITH ME ON THIS JOURNEY?
     
  16. CoolBuddy7

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    I was about to ask you to post this here as well, but, I am glad you did it already. This is very motivational and inspiring !
     
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  17. wwtl

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    This is a lot:
    • Comfortable with leaving the comfort zone
    • Better decision making
    • Social anxiety gone
    • Nervousness gone
    • Became good at conversation
    • Humor improved (especially timing)
    • Became good at reading other people, especially women
    • Confident appearance, sticks even under stress or when feeling bad
    • Dealing with anger and frustration became much easier
    • In full control of own behavior at all times
    • Vision and hearing improved
    • Voice pitch lowered
    • Skin and hair improved
    • Beard growth increased
    • Thinking speed and concentration improved
    • Musical skills improved
    • Driving skills improved
    • Foreign language skills improved
    • etc.
    In short: Literally everything works better without PMO. I suddenly feel like being ten years younger.
     
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  18. Hero:HOPE

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    My Journal
    NEXT TIME TAG ME ON SUCH A THREAD :D I AM HERE NOW!!!!
     
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  19. bikinhappy

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    I'm with you brother!!!! Yeahhh!!! :) :) :)
     
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  20. CoolBuddy7

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    It is a lot ! It is of course inspirational ! Thank you so much !
     
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