ZenAF
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THE ORIGIN OF FEMALE DOMINATION
Since a lot of people are having issues with femdom and sissy porn and the like, I decided to share my knowledge about the origin of female domination with you, as it may help you to break the delusion.
There are many reasons why men can be drawn to dominant women, but the underlying force is the same: It's a drive to return to mother nature, to the Uroboros, back to the womb, back when the burden of responsibility didn't exist yet and we were in tune with nature.
The Uroboros, the snake that bites it's own tail, is a symbol for the origin of existence, chaos, nature, eternity, death and birth
Carl Jung, the most famous and successful psychologist of the 20th century had a student called Erich Neumann, who wrote a book called "The Origin of Consciousness". Early in the book my mind was blown because I suddenly fully understood the phenomenon of Femdom (even tho Neumann never used that term) and where it comes from. I'm going to try to summarize as best I can.
To understand Femdom you need to understand the archetype of the Devouring Mother.
The definition of an archetype is a bit too complex to explain it in full detail, but you can see it as a pattern of behavior that is constantly being embodied by people cross-culturally since the beginning of time.
There are many archetypes, men have two main archetypes, the benevolent father and the tyrant. One positive one negative. Women have the benevolent mother and the devouring mother. You all know Mother Mary and so you all understand the image of the benevolent mother.
Various representations of the benevolent father
Benevolent mother
To explain the devouring mother I have to recap the psychological development of consciousness first. But before I have to mention that these findings made by Neumann are not classic science in the sense that you can unmistakably proof his theories. Because what he did was to cross-reference countless accounts from different early cultures all across the world, comparing their commonalities in terms of psychological behavior and symbolism and based on that laid out a sequence of developmental stages that humanity went through AND, neumann thinks, every child makes through too as they grow up!
In the beginning there was unity. Being was harmonious. People were very close to animals with very little consciousness, without responsibility. This state is represented by the Uroboros. Their life was dependent on and dictated by nature, just like the life of a child is dependent on and dictated by its mother.
In this state, the feminine ruled, people worshiped mother Gaya, she who brings life into being and at the same time eats her own fruit to make new life again, completing the cycle. The role of the masculine at this stage was merely the role of fruit. They were the seed that grow and live to serve the great mother only to be sacrificed to her as soon as they're ripe. Hence the name the devouring mother.
Remember we're talking about a psychological developmental stage. Humans were once a harmonious part of nature and fully dependent of her (of course we still are, but not in the same way). That dependency was expressed in imagery that came out of the unconscious of people. In many cultures they worshiped female deities first.
The next developmental stage is in mythological stories often depicted as the splitting of the parents. From one make two. The sun and the moon separate. Consciousness is born and masculinity starts to distinguish itself from nature. With that comes a great deal of stress and disorientation. The harmony is lost, people and nature start to be at odds with one another, the ego and a sense of self is born. The splitting is painful and scary, just remember the first time when your parents left you alone with other kids or other adults and you had a strong urge to go back to the comfort of your mom. But you soon learned that you are your own person and that you can say "no!" to your mom. And with time and courage the archetype of the hero is born. The hero confronts the dragon of chaos (the devouring mother), bests her and frees the virgin (the benevolent feminine).
From a rational perspective what I've written just now may seem pretty random, but that's the nature of the language of symbolism. That's how dreams work too btw, they are based on symbolic language. So your rational mind might be taken a back but your unconscious undoubtedly understands what I'm writing. For the same reason you can watch a cartoon movie like "Pinocchio" as a kid and fully understand it's meaning, even tho it's just drawings of a talking puppet saving his father from a whale.
As mentioned an archetype is a behavioral pattern that is represented constantly across time. Nowadays a devouring mother is a mom that doesn't want her kids to go out of the house, because she's not willing to give up her role as nurturer and therefor doesn't want her kids to grow up. The result is eg. an Eric Cartman from South Park, we commonly refer to them as manbabies.
But the professional representation of the devouring mother so to speak, is the modern day dominatrix.
I've watched many femdom hypnosis videos (why else would I write this thread
) and I've observed the same pattern over and over again. You can tell by the language and the intent that they use to get you to do one thing and one thing only: Give up your sense of self and return the leadership to her. In other words, become a fruit again."Just relax and let go. Listen to my voice. Forget about your worries. I'm all that matters now. I'll make you feel good."
When you go further into the femdom "training" and you pay attention to it, you can clearly recognize their emphasis on your cock!
Because that's all you are to them. A cock. A fruit. Your personality is meaningless. Your will is meaningless. You're here to serve and here to die for her.
It's quite shocking to see the subconscious power of the devouring mother that's being played out in all the female dominated relationships around the world. All the men end up with a caged-penis and an absolutely shattered sense of self.
(I intentionally chose an image that shows no curves, I hope this ok with the forum rules)
So what makes men do that to themselves? Well if you understood what I've written so far it should be clear why. All of us have a need to go back to the Uroboros. It's normal. Our house is a form of Uroboros, our bed, our sleep. We need rest and retreat to regain force to face the challenges and the suffering of the world the next day.
But when men deep inside are too insecure, they flee from their responsibility (which at the same time constitutes their freedom) and they rather yearn for absolute retreat and there are women who complement that pathology. Women who hunger for power and control.
It's easy to fall into the trap if you don't understand what it really is, because it's very seductive to leave the burden of your responsibility behind and fall back into the embrace of a woman. Your unconscious can lead you right down that alley without you ever consciously admitting to yourself what you're getting yourself into.
But the point is it's not healthy. It's not just a "kink". It's pathological. There are no successful long-term femdom relationships. Because think about it from the perspective of the devouring mother. You don't just eat one fruit, you eat many. When one man is used up the next one comes. And in the end it's not fulfilling for either party.
So I know this is a long post, I took a snip-it from Neumann's work and strongly condensed it, if you want to know more, read his book. Or ask me questions.
Hope this helps and thanks for reading
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